I am me. It took me a long time, 36 years, to learn to H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E and to love and like me. That was lesson one. The second one was to accept every part of me. That took me 4 years. And the third was to realize what decisions I was making to keep myself in a victim mode. By embracing the fact that I am made in God's image and that he doesn't make mistakes...I have moved to loving me. And I have been spoiling me!!! : )​
I keep the child in me alive by collecting African American Barbie dolls. I am giving to others through my ministry, NAMI, and my personal friendships. Most importantly I have forgiven everyone, including myself, for my past and making my present a gift to me.
One thing I wish someone would have told me besides H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E. is you are made up of a body, spirit, and mind. All three have to be taken care of and taken into consideration when you are hit with any illness, problem or negative situation. Since human beings are comprised of a body, spirit, and mind, all three must be taken care of and taken into account when managing any kind of problem. I have learned that you must take care of your body with proper nutrition, exercise, rest and vitamin supplements. You must also work very closely with your medical provider to secure the best possible treatment. This includes educating yourself about available treatment methods and medications for your condition, and articulating any side effects you may experience to your doctor immediately so that he/she can make dosage adjustments as necessary. Regarding your spirit, I have learned from experience that being spiritually grounded will help get you through the darkest days you will face. Know that you can achieve spiritual health by praying consistently, reading your scriptures and books on your faith, and by meditating to quiet your mind so that you can achieve spiritual balance. You also need to nurture your mind by reading positive affirmations, listening to uplifting music, and by only watching shows that espouse and promote healthy ideas that can teach you new things and help you to expand your horizons. Finally, by helping others, you will also make yourself feel good as you are making a contribution to society and at the same time stimulating your mind. I consistently give of myself to others via Taboo Talk, writing messages on my blog and volunteering. When you are right spiritually, on the correct medications for your brain/body, and are feeding your mind positive thoughts and affirmations, you can only be one thing: HEALTHY and HAPPY.
Remember to treat your temple like what it is, a temple. Stop abusing your body! Treat the gift of life with reverence and respect. Honoring God by taking care of the precious gift of life he has given you. From this point forward, make it a point to eat healthy, exercise and be the best representation of God on the planet.
And lastly, I am living proof that you can come back from anything and have a good life.
Remember that a delay is not a denial but a greater delivery. God will give you mercy in your time of need if you pray for it. And when it comes, it is so sweet and always on time. Don’t forget to praise God for his mercy!
I pray that you are having a good Day and that you have a phenomenal remainder of the week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, peace, happiness, good health, prosperity and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"
Amen
Sending you love from my side of the world.
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
How are you? I hope good.
Well we made it.
We made it through the third quarter of 2021 praise God with God's blessings:
a roof over our heads, clothing on our back, food on our table, a source of income and good times with family and friends.
God has been so good to you and I.
I pray that the rest of 2021 is your year! I pray that in this year, God blesses you with more favor and grace than ever before and that you experience more good health, joy, peace, happiness, love, prosperity and good times than ever before.
I also pray that this week brings you moments of joy and happiness, as well as times to exhale and appreciate the life God has blessed you with in the name of Jesus Christ. Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!! How are you doing today? I will never forget what happened on 9/11. God bless all the survivors and the families of those who we lost.
Can you believe it's been 20 years since 9/11 happened? Look at where you were then and where you are now. How much has changed? How much has stayed the same?
All I can say is God is good and I know he's been good to you!!! Praise God!!! It's written all over your face. God is the same way yesterday, today and tomorrow. Take comfort in God's unchanging hand. It's steady, stable and consistent regardless of what situation you may find yourself in. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!! Sending you love from my side of the world.
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Hello Beautiful!!!!
How are you doing precious? I pray good. You know it is so easy to slip and fall off the bad wagon of good habits and doing the right things for yourself. Have you noticed that? It is easy to do the bad thing but hard to do good? Have you fallen off the band wagon lately of eating right, exercising, and doing other things to keep healthy? If so, that's okay, just dust yourself off, get back up and back on the band wagon to do what you have to be the best you possible. Why? Because you deserve the best life has to offer, including the best you. So it doesn't matter if it has only been a day, month or years, get back on track today.
I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity and peace of mind in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Please know that I am praying for you and your family.
Today, take an hour to watch Taboo Talk Podcast Guest Star Deborah M Cofer aka Mama C share how to have happiness. Show above

Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Hello Beautiful!!!
Those who love you, love you well. With that in mind, don't wait until a loved one is gone to show them appreciation, give it to them now, when they are alive and can appreciate it. Spoil them and treat them with love and care they deserve because they make your life full of meaning. Tell them how their time, attention and nurturing impacted you and made you feel good. Show support and care about what they doing. I pray you never feel like you wish you had done these things at their grave site. People are not mind readers. Let your friends, family, leaders, and those who impact you know how much you care. Tomorrow is not promised. So...Don't wait until someone's funeral to bring them flowers. Bring them flowers when,they are alive and often. Give them presents and gifts just because. Let it be said about you that you show the people you love a lot of time, love and affection. Do for others now while they are with you. Visit often. Hug deeply. Spend time. Be generous with your praise and gratitude to people for what they have done in your life. Send thank you notes when you receive gifts. Send thank you gifts when people do nice things for you. This effort will be greatly appreciated. Develop this bond because these are the people who love you the most.

Today I spent quality time with my family. It was a blessing.

This was a long week. I am happy the weekend is finally here.
I hope that you have something special planned for this weekend.
Make sure you take time to relax and rejuvenate yourself.
I pray that you have a good Day and a week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, peace, happiness, good health, prosperity and rest.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Sunday Message: Are You in God's Will for Your Life?
Hello Beautiful! How are you doing? I hope great. Because if not, then I want you to check to make sure that you are walking in alignment with God's will for your life. How do you do this? By reading and following the ten commandments God gave us in the Bible and following the directives Jesus gave us while on Earth. It is always good to refresh yourself on exactly what you are suppose to be doing so that all can be going well for you.
God said in Exodus 20: 1-19
New International Version (NIV)
The Ten Commandments
1 And God spoke all these words:
2 “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
3 “You shall have no other gods before[a] me.
4 “You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. 5 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, 6 but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.
7 “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.
8 “Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. 9 Six days you shall labor and do all your work, 10 but the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your male or female servant, nor your animals, nor any foreigner residing in your towns. 11 For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.
12 “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.
13 “You shall not murder.
14 “You shall not commit adultery.
15 “You shall not steal.
16 “You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.
17 “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”
Jesus said in Matthew 19:16 And, behold, one came and said unto him, Good Master, what good thing shall I do, that I may have eternal life?
17 And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments.
18 He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said, Thou shalt do no murder, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness,
19 Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
I pray that this information you helps you and that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity and peace of mind in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

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Sunday Message:
Hello Beautiful!!!Thank God for your knowledge, skills, talents,dreams, goals and passion. These are God's gifts to you. How do you manage your passion in the midst of a pandemic?Taboo Talk is honored to have subject matter expert and best selling published author Shamara Ray on the show sharing how to manage your passion in the midst of a pandemic.This show will be full of information that will take you to the next level on your spiritual journey. Please plan on watching her in the video above.

I pray that you are having a good Day and that you have a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy and favor in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"Amen
Sending you love and appreciation from my side of the world.Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!! Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Fatigue can be costly. One bad decision made from being tired can create countless tragedies. When Jesus Christ was on Earth he always took time to separate himself from the world. He knew he could only give away that which he possessed. Work time is giving. Rest time is receiving. You must have both. God created the Earth in six days but he took time to rest on the seventh day. He set an example for us. Jesus did the same thing. Jesus understood the balance of rest and work, which I feel is the reason he was able to accomplish so much in three and half years. Life is demanding. The more you succeed, the more people will demand of you. To grow you must rebuild. Rebuilding yourself will require your attention. Work hard but play and rest just as hard. Schedule it. Take one day a week to schedule time to totally relax. Focus on something different. Your mind will think clearer. You will make better decisions. You will see life through different eyes and you will continue to grow.


Today, for more on self-care and self-love please watch my Educate, Enlighten and Empower Workshop above.​

I pray that you are having a good Day and that you have a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, peace, happiness, good health, prosperity and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Hello Beautiful!!!
Jesus told his disciples: “There was a rich man whose manager was accused of wasting his possessions. So he called him in and asked him, ‘What is this I hear about you? Give an account of your management, because you cannot be manager any longer.’ “The manager said to himself, ‘What shall I do now? My master is taking away my job. I’m not strong enough to dig, and I’m ashamed to beg— I know what I’ll do so that, when I lose my job here, people will welcome me into their houses.’ “So he called in each one of his master’s debtors. He asked the first, ‘How much do you owe my master?’ “ ‘Nine hundred gallons of olive oil,’ he replied. “The manager told him, ‘Take your bill, sit down quickly, and make it four hundred and fifty.’ “Then he asked the second, ‘And how much do you owe?’ “ ‘A thousand bushels of wheat,’ he replied. “He told him, ‘Take your bill and make it eight hundred.’ “The master commended the dishonest manager because he had acted shrewdly. For the people of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their own kind than are the people of the light. I tell you, use worldly wealth to gain friends for yourselves, so that when it is gone, you will be welcomed into eternal dwellings. “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches? And if you have not been trustworthy with someone else’s property, who will give you property of your own? “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.”
Luke 16:1‭-‬13 NIV

Are you being shrewd in how you are taking care of your temple, your body, the spirit of God living inside of you?

So be shrewd

What does shrewd mean? Having or showing sharp powers of judgment; astute. For example: "she was shrewd enough to guess the motive behind his gesture"
synonyms: astute, sharp-witted, sharp, acute, intelligent, clever, alert, canny, media-savvy, perceptive, perspicacious, observant, discriminating, sagacious, sage, wise, far-seeing, far-sighted;

If God can't trust you to take care of your temple, why are you asking Him for anything else? Start today to maintain your frame. Here's a question for you: If not now, when? When will you change to become the precious man or woman of God that God created you to be? When? When will you start living on purpose, taking the best care of yourself and living out your passion, when? When will you stop making excuses and start doing what ever it is you say you need to do? When. Now, my sister or brother, now is the time. All the power of God is focused in the here and now and there is no better time than the present to change. You have the power within you through the Holy Spirit to be the best you possible!!! Don't waste another moment doing it the wrong way. From this point forward make a conscious decision to live on purpose and to be your best self possible by eating healthy, exercising and drinking plenty of water. You are the temple of God and God's representation on this planet. You are God's best. Love and appreciate you because we only have one you!!!

Heavenly Father,thank you for watching over and providing for the special person reading this message.Father please continue to bless them with more love,joy,peace,happiness, good health and prosperity. Please bless them with more of your favor,mercy and grace. Father help them to be shrewd in their affairs and with themselves. Father thank you in advance for answering this short prayer. In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen!

Sending you love and appreciation from my side of the world!!! Until next time,take care of yourself and stay special!!! Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay 
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
 www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Sunday Message
Hello Beautiful!!!
Never limit yourself!!!
You can achieve any dream or goal that you set for yourself if you believe and never doubt
Luke 1:37:
"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" in the name of Jesus Christ Amen.
I have been believing in this since I was 5 years old. To get through, I set goals for myself. When I came to roosevelt junior senior high school, I knew in the 7th grade what I wanted to become in 12th grade. I told my best friend Warren Benjamin that I wanted to be my class president, homecoming queen, year book editor, public announcer and involved in all the clubs I cared about. He said to me let me know what I can do when the time is right to help you make your dreams come true.
Praise God all of my dreams came true.
Today I remind myself and I tell you that we serve a great God who loves us deeply and beyond all that we can imagine and he has in the past, he is doing it in the present and he will provide for us in the future plus bless us with the desires of our hearts.
I Thank God for everything I have ever done or accomplished. Truly it was God's hand on my life that saw me through my darkest hours and happiest moments.
Always remember to Give God the glory for keeping you in your right frame of mind and giving you the best life possible for he is the source for whom all blessings flow.
Like I did today, think back on past success, goals, and dreams to support and increase your faith. Remember God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry www.ladycharmaineday.com

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Happy New Year!!!
Praise God that we are alive, healthy and have made it all the way through 2020, praise God, with God's blessings: a roof over our heads, clothing on our back, food on our table, a source of income and good times with family and friends. God has been so good to you and I. I pray that 2021 is your year! I pray that in this year, God blesses you with more favor and grace than ever before and that you experience more good health, joy, peace, happiness, love, prosperity and good times than ever before in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
HAPPY NEW YEAR BEAUTIFUL!!!
Praise God that the biggest trial we have faced as Americans is coming to a close and that we have a brand new president. God is good. This year focus on getting yourself together and being the best you possible.  If you need to take time to get yourself together and by that I mean in shape and healthy, then do so. You are worth it. Your body is the temple of God. Live so that you can experience all of the promises of God found in Deuteronomy 28: 1-13. This year thank God for his mercy. He heard our cries for help and answered us when we needed him most. God is good. So also focus on your relationship with God. He is your greatest asset. Are you taking time to talk to God? Does God know what's on your mind and in your heart? If not, get about speaking to our Heavenly Father about your cares and he will take care of each and every one of them if you leave them in his capable hands.
You are precious, special and beautiful. Treat yourself best this year. Love and like you. Spoil you. Take care of you. Appreciate yourself for who and what you are in the scheme of things, a beautiful blessed child of God. Let this be a good year for you and yours by staying positive, healthy and in relationship with God.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry www.ladycharmaineday.com
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To The Very Special Person Reading This: Hello Beautiful!!! You have to trust in your heart mind body and soul that God just will make a way out of no way for you. Regardless of your circumstances at all times God is in control. Stop for a minute and let that marinate in your mind. God your Heavenly Father is in control and he has you in the palm of his hands. At all times he is caring and loving you and working things out for your higher good so relax. He is opening doors that are closed to others for you. He is giving you favor with those in positions of power, he is blessing your home and children, basically he is taking care of all your needs and wants. Psalms 23:1 says the Lord is my shepherd I shall not want. What this means is that all your needs are taking care of and your wants too if Jesus Christ is your lord and shepherd. So you can rest and breathe easier knowing God is making ways for you when you can’t see away. That is why he is God. He can make the supernatural occur. And basically that’s what he wants to do. He wants for you to praise him for delivering you out of your circumstances. He wants you to come to him and thank him for what he has done. So continue to believe in God for deliverance to a highest level in every area of your life and for a deliverance from any problem that you may be facing. And when you seek his face, ask him once for help and just praise him talk to him about what else is going on in your life. Listen for what the Holy Spirit wants you to know. Read your Bible for divine revelation and you will be enlightened. God will bless you. Continue to seek God’s face. Never stop believing and having hope that God will make a way out of no way because he will. He will deliver you. Remember what I always say, "a delay is not a denial but a greater delivery!!!"
​Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Each day is a present.
Never forget that.
We don't know how long each of us has.
So let go of anger.
So let go of resentment.
So let go of negative stinking thinking.
And enjoy the present.
You have a beautiful family.
Look at their good things,
not their flaws.
Remember why you fell in love in the first place.
And why you are in love now.
It is all good.
God has blessed you over and over again.
Never forget where you came from and where you are now.
You are alive, sane, healthy with your own family living on your own terms.
God is good!!!
So when your loved one does something to work your nerves, remember to be grateful that you have them.Remember, your family is a gift from God. Everyone doesn't have what you have. So be a good steward over your gift. Remember you can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens you (Philippians 4:13)
When I hit a wall, I remember that God is in control. I am God's child and everything will be alright in the name of Jesus Christ. Let that sink in and become your own affirmation.You are a beacon of light. Do what you need to do so that your light can shine. So just love your family. In arguments, be the bigger person. Seek a peaceful and happy home by being peaceful and happy. Always remember that you are blessed. God blessed you with another day to love your family. So love them.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!! Sending you love from my side of the world.
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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For my entire childhood,teenage years,twenties and early thirties, I did not understand Martin Luther King Jr. I could not understand how he was able to so calmly, professionally and smoothly maintain a stance of non-violence in the direct light of violence against himself, the people following him and his family.It wasn't until I casually said to someone when I was angry the following statement did I realize what he was doing. I was working as the head of human resources in a very unprofessional environment. One of my co-workers who was pregnant was harassed by a couple of workers on the job. One of the people who stressed her out I walked up to and I said in a very calm voice "I feel sorry for you.I am going to pray for you. I am going to pray that the God I serve avenge me in this situation. I pray that you never feel a day a peace until you apologize to this woman sincerely and leave her alone. And I pray that you never forget this lesson and change your wicked ways." The woman just started to shake. She said "Ms. Day, Ms. Day please stop. Please don't pray. Please don't pray." I walked away.
I went back to my office. I sat down. Then people came running into my office asking me what did I do to her. I said nothing. I said I would pray for her to change her wicked ways. They said the woman was admitted into the emergency room screaming and seizuring.
That made me think. I got really scared. Up until this point I never saw a direct correlation between silent protest for justice, and the power of prayer. I was humbled by it.
From that day forward I promised to watch my words.
And to be careful about my prayers, God listens.
I knew that God sees me, hears me and does take action when it comes to me.
I know he does that for me and he does that and more for you.
Today, I am more mature in my walk as a Christian. I wouldn't walk up to someone and tell them I am praying for them. I would just pray silently for God to intervene in the situation, take away my anger and for the best outcome to happen. And then I show up, without stress, worry or concern and let God handle the rest. People have seen other people yell and scream at me and me not raise my voice. React. I hear them out. Then I patiently respond and remain professional. People ask me don't I feel weak? Don't I get angry? Don't I want to punch the person in the face? And I say to them, I am not in charge of this situation, God is. God has never failed me and he will avenge me in this situation. And you will see it. And sure as my legal maiden name is Charmaine Day justice comes to pass.
So if you find yourself in the midst of a situation where someone is attacking you, don't think that there isn't power in prayer. Your prayer is the most powerful weapon that you can evoke. Its power reaches beyond this situation and sometimes generations in terms of outcomes. You are not a victim but victorious.
On another note of silent protest, I am boycotting the NFL by not watching any football games or sports commentary on football because the NFL owners have not hired Colin Kaepernick because of his silent protest against police brutality and racism. I realized that right now I am witnessing a man who took a righteous stand be persecuted as a result. That's not right. I will continue to boycott until Colin Kaepernick is gainfully employed as a quarterback in the NFL.
I am praying for Colin's protest against police brutality and racism to bring changes in America.
Colin Kaepernick is our generations Muhammad Ali.

There is power in prayer.
There is power in silent protest.

I wrote this in September 2017. Three years later Colin still is unemployed by the NFL and I am still boycotting the NFL. Colin Kaepernick has become a symbol and leader for ending racism and police brutality. Today, May 2020 we are in the middle of a pandemic and the one thing occurring is more and more police brutality against African Americans. George Floyd lost his life. And that was the straw that broke our collective backs.
Feelings of anger, rage, anxiety, and a deep exhaustion that this exists is felt by all. Riots, national guard, curfews on top of being told to stay home to stay healthy.
You may wonder what can I do? Pray. Be non-violent. Use the power of your vote and where you choose to spend your money, time and resources to make changes occur. Be the change you want to see occur. Use the power of prayer, vote and personal choice to influence this crisis. Spend on purpose with a purpose. Vote for people who will make change occur and will fight to end systematic racism.
If you know an institution is racist, like the NFL, boycott them. Don't spend your money with them. Don't watch their programs. Vote. Pray. Use your mind to fight this fight. In all things remember God is in control. Pray to him.
After 3 years, I still believe there is power in silent protest. I still believe in the power of prayer and personal choice to make change occur.
My prayer for today is that you and your family remain healthy, safe, and come to a place of peace in the midst of this crisis in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37 "for with God nothing shall be impossible!" Amen
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely your pastor,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
How are you? I pray good.
Today, we are in the middle of a crisis When a crisis occurs, it is survival of the fittest. Companies use the times as an excuse to clean house and do whatever they want to reform and to make a profit. And you, you are left to fend for yourself. To battle the corporate mind games of being in the rat race. To deal with the high cost of barely surviving. And if you are doing it in your own strength, just like you have done it all this time, how far do you think you are going to get?
WHO DO YOU THINK IS IN CONTROL?
WAKE UP!!!
God is in control.
And he is not bothered by
the sign of the times.
Because for those who call his name
he will hear them and
give them his grace, love, favor and mercy.

While diseases come over other houses, they will pass yours by.
Humble yourself and find God.
And the way back is simply to ask for forgiveness and to seek his face.
And to stand. Stand on scripture.
Philippians 4:13
"I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me."
Luke 1:37
"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"
Stand on this word until
you are the word
and the word and you are one.

Remember as you come and you go,
ask God to order your footsteps.
Pray for everything, your home, your job, your family, your friends, your happiness and for peace. Nothing good will be withheld from you, if you believe and have faith in God, not yourself.
I can tell you, that serving God and not relying on myself to get through life is easier.
I don't get stressed by what I see because I know he's got me.
Having a relationship with God and tying my self-image to this one fact:
I am a child of God, God has me,
gives me peace of mind and the confidence that I will be safe and secure throughout life's trials and tribulations. That my fate is not determined by man but God gives me peace.
A peace of mind that you can not buy.
And I want that for you.
Now is the time to make sure that your most valuable asset is your relationship with God and your most used resource is the Bible. Seek comfort in the fact that whatever you may face in this world, it will not overcome you because God will help keep you and protect you.
When trouble comes your way, do you worry about your circumstances and feel fear that you won't make it out of the jam you find yourself in? I ask you, do you truly believe in God? I ask the question because bad things will happen and negative situations will occur. It is at these times when your belief in God should sustain you and carry you through. It is imperative that you come to a place in your life where you are not moved by your circumstances and you do not worry about the negative situations you find yourself in because you know without a shadow of a doubt that God is real, he is in control and he has you in the palm of his hands. He is not going to let anyone or anything harm you because you are his child. God is in control!!! At no time did he quit. So exhale. Let go and let God. God loves you!!!
Isn't it good to be loved by him?
Today just let it marinate on God's goodness in your life and all the daily blessings he gives you and your family like your home, food, clothing, source of income and waking you up in this morning just to name a few. Take time out to just feel grateful for all the blessings you have and how the best is Gods love and you will feel a peace that will resonate throughout your body.

My prayer for you is that this weekend you have time to reflect on what matter's most and to give God the glory for all the blessings he has bestowed upon you. Remember, we serve a mighty God who loves you and has made provision for you because you are a child of 
​God. 

I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal weekend filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity and peace of mind in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen

Please know that I am here for you and I am praying for you and your family.

Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Everything has a price. What is yours? Do you know for what price you can be bought or sold? How much does it cost to lose your soul? Sanity can be measured. It is the ease at which you are able to breathe and sleep at night. It is the amount of frown lines you have in your face, it is the words that you never say and are never spoken about you in love and tenderness. For nothing, you give everything you have to go after the 5ws. The who, what, when, where, and why of the world. And the 5ws are:
Who…Who do I know, Whose network do I belong to, Who am I (my title, my position), and Who am I with (dating or married to).
What… What you look like. What you have. What you own. What you are (I am Doctor Jones etc.).
When…When do I get the next thing. When did I accomplish what I have now. When I get “X” then I’ll be happy or satisfied (but upon getting x you never are) and your life is driven by what age you accomplish something.
Where…Where do I live. Where do I work. Where do I or my family accomplish our daily active living.
Why…Why do I get what I have (the world calls it the halo effect when you get what you do because of a certain reason that most people have a favorable bias towards).
Thinking that once you have it, it will come. The it being the happy ending, the happiness that you had wanted all your life, the feeling of satisfaction, the never ceasing smile. But upon getting it, because that is what you tied your sanity to, you are never satisfied. Because you see, all of those are things, idols, things that you worshipped versus god and god said not to worship any other god but him.
I have been there and done that. My price, what I worshipped and got for the wrong reasons: husband, six figure income, title, car, house, all for the “right image”. Who was I posing for? The world. The world wasn’t feeding me, financing me or f***ing me so why did I give up my sanity for the right image? At the end of the day, when all of that was gone (all the "right image things" everything that I thought would make me happy), no one who was looking came to save me, except one. God.
God. The hand I let go of to pursue the right image, was the only one extended to me to stand back up. And when I dropped the S from my chest for being my own savior and superwoman and picked up the J for jesus, I truly began to live. I was 34. For 34 years I was the dead walking. Being alive, happy, content, fulfilled, I can honestly say, I never knew that before I surrendered to god for relationship.
Today, we are in the middle of hard times. When hard times occur, it is survival of the fittest. Companies use “the times” as an excuse to clean house and do whatever they want to reform and to make a profit. And you, you are left to fend for yourself. To battle the corporate mind games of being in the rat race. To deal with the high cost of barely surviving. And if you are doing it in your own strength, just like you have done it all this time, how far do you think you are going to get? WHO DO YOU THINK IS IN CONTROL? WAKE UP!!! God is in control. And he is not bothered by the sign of the times. Because for those who call his name he will hear them and give them his grace, love, favor and mercy. While plagues may come over other houses, they will pass yours by. Humble yourself and find God.
And the way back is simply to ask for forgiveness and to seek his face.
And to stand. Stand on scripture. Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me”. Stand on this word until you are the word and the word and you are one.
Remember as you come and you go, ask God to order your footsteps. Pray for everything, your home, your job, your family, your friends, your happiness and for peace. Nothing good will be withheld from you, if you believe and have faith in God, not yourself. I can tell you, that serving God and not relying on myself to get through life is easier. I don't get stressed by what I see because I know he's got me. Having a relationship with God and tying my self-image to this one fact: I am a Child of God, God has me, gives me peace of mind and the confidence that I will be safe and secure throughout life's trials and tribulations. That my fate is not determined by man but God gives me peace. A peace of mind that you can not buy. And I want that for you. Now is the time to make sure that your most valuable asset is your relationship with God and your most used resource is the bible. Seek comfort in the fact that whatever you may face in this world, it will not overcome you because God will help keep you and protect you.
Remember, stay blessed.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
​www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Planning on publishing my 9th book next year
​Here's an excerpt:


Sexual Energy,
How to motivate the mic

God gives each and every one of us talents. The Bible talks about how Jacob robbed Esau of his talent. That was man to man. So it shows us that a talent can be stolen when it is being bestowed upon someone as a generational gift. How does someone steal your talent once you have it? Sexual energy. In school, we are taught not to have unprotected sex. You are taught that you can catch a sexually transmitted disease and have unwanted pregnancy. But spiritually what happens? You become connected to the person you are having sex with. And you will always be in the history of that person. Part of their DNA if fluids are exchange. And just in general you are sharing your talent with that person. Now most people just have a spiritual linkage. They don’t form a bond deeper than a mutual exchange of sexual energy. However some people when they lay with you do so to steal your talent. They steal your talent by capturing the essence of you at the time you have an orgasmic release. This happens when the person stops seeing you with their physical senses and opens their spirit to connect with yours. They use their intuitive perception to form a connection. They start noticing the rhythm of your heartbeat. The timing of your being that your maker has set you at. Once you know someone’s timing you know how they accomplish goals in their life.
How do you motivate the mic? First of all, what is the mic? If the world is a stage, the mic is any instrument you use to motivate an individual or people to do some action for you. Whether it is reacting to something you created or feeling something from what you have done, the mic is the way you transmute your desire to people. How do you motivate the mic than? How do you get it to do your command? You have to know the timing of the mic in question. You have to understand how to make the mic come alive in your hands the moment you touch it. You know how to breathe life into the mic by understanding the timing of the mic’s craft. You learn the timing of the mic one of three ways: naturally, studying about the craft, or stealing the talent of someone who knows how to motivate the mic.
Today, beware of who you lay with.
I often laugh to myself. People who have slept with me and thought they have used me, in essence I have used them. While they were gaining sexual bliss from me, my mind was thinking about rhythm and timing and motivation. What motivates this person? What makes this person tick? How can they make me feel anything? How do they walk? How do they talk? What kind of presence do they have in a crowd? How do they protect me? How do they make me feel when I am with them? How do they make other people feel? Is their a light around them? What does that light look like? How does that light look in the reflection of my eyes or someone else’s? What does beautiful look like to them? What is ugly? What makes them good looking? What takes away from their character? What is their secret? Like the bottom line:why do I want you? Why have you made me stop whatever I am doing along my journey to focus my attention on you? What is special about you?
All of this goes on in the back of my brain. Every person I sleep with a character in a play. The play called my life. The stage the world. The audience people in my life. The light public scrutiny. The mic my pen, or the radio, or tv or a magazine or the internet. But from day one I knew to record it, later it would be analyzed by others, this is bigger me.
Why?
Sexual energy.
How to motivate the mic.
Questioning everything, wondering, pondering, just being inquisitive. Wondering how to gain myself back from losing myself in my lover’s grasp was my initial reasoning for trying to figure out the key to sexual energy.
And then once I understood that I would gain something. Not only myself back, but talent, it blew my mind.
Once I understood the principle of sexual energy, plus timing, plus motivating the mic, plus the first rule of comedy which is “fuck it”, I truly could implement the biblical principle I had been standing on “For with God nothing shall be impossible”

Look back over the tapestry of your life. And do the analysis I have done. Analyze fully the people you have slept with like I have and you will recognize the hidden talent within your spirit. For they are eternally linked with yours.

You hear the saying that old couples look alike, sound alike, walk alike. Why? Over time, one has the captured the sexual energy or the essence of the other’s being. They know the person’s rhythm, their timing, what motivates them, how they will react in any situation and thus they gain that person’s talent.

This is how it works.
Food for thought:
Now that you know, from this point forward, will you so loosely sleep with any ole body and give yourself away, give your talent away?
Hmm, marinate on that and let me know.


#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com