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1st Coping Strategy for Good Mental Health by Lady Charmaine Day

5/2/2023

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In recognition of Mental Health Awareness month, I am dedicating this blog to my #1 Coping Strategy for good mental health and recovery: Loving and liking yourself. Practice self-care and self-love. Excerpt from my book of good mental wellness solutions called Lady Day's Pearls of Wisdom: 

You may wonder, why was I born? What am I to do with the life I have been given. When Jesus Christ was on this Earth, he answered these questions when he was asked what is the most important commandment that we should follow?

According to Mark 12:29-31,The most important one, answered Jesus, is this: Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.The second is this: Love your neighbor as yourself.There is no commandment greater than these.

So first, we should love God with all are heart, soul, mind and strength and second we should love our neighbor as we love ourselves.

I want to focus the rest of this formula on the importance of loving yourself. Jesus commanded us to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. But you can not love anyone if you do not first love yourself. The question for today is do you love yourself and are you taking care of yourself in the best manner possible?

I want to begin by telling you that you are special and divinely made. You were created by God. And that YOU ARE LOVABLE and GOD LOVES YOU! How do I know this? I know this because of what it says in Psalms 139:13-16. According to Psalms 139:13-16For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mothers womb.I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.

If God loving put you together, you know that you are not a mistake, you were made on purpose. God created you so that your body could be the temple of God.You are special. Special enough to be formed by God himself. Therefore you are lovable and God loves you.

Your body is the temple of God. Did you know your body is the temple of God? According to I Corinthians 6:19-20: Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.

Your body is the first gift God gave you. How are you treating your body? Are you honoring and taking care of it like the precious gift God has given you? Are you giving your body the proper nutrients, exercise and rest it requires? Are you taking care of your body the best way possible? Church. We treat the physical building of church how we should treat our bodies. We respect, honor and clean our churches to make sure it is an excellent representation of God when in fact our bodies are the temple of God. You would never think to fill up a church with junk and debris yet we constantly put junk and garbage in our bodies! As Romans 12:1 says "Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of Gods mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship." I urge you today to begin to honor your body, the temple of God, by treating it right. By right I mean eating good food (e.g. vegetables, fruit and lean cuts of meat) and by taking the time to exercise your body as well as dress appropriately. While here on Earth, you represent God and are ambassador of God. I encourage you to be the best representation of God on the planet!!
Remember to treat your temple like what it is, a temple. Stop abusing your body! Treat the gift of life with reverence and respect. Honoring God by taking care of the precious gift of life he has given you. From this point forward, make it a point to eat healthy, exercise and be the best representation of God on the planet. You will be glad that you did.

All of this is a form of worshiping God and taking the time to love and like yourself.

Besides eating healthy, and exercising, take the time to pick something about yourself that you like. It can be something small, but whatever it is, its yours. Love it. Loving it means taking care of it and nurturing it. And after you done that, pick something else about you and so on until you have done your whole body. Remember at all times you are special. Be gentle with yourself!

I remember when I started the process of loving and liking me. The only thing that I could find about myself that I truly liked were my feet. So what did I do? I got some Victoria Secret Lotion Pear Glace. I would loving lotion my feet everyday. Then eventually my mother bought me a gold toe ring for one foot and I bought myself a gold toe ring for the other. My feet felt loved. I felt loved. Then I picked something else about myself I liked. My hands. I started to get manicures, and to keep my hands moisturized. My hands felt loved. I felt loved. I felt myself loving and liking me. Then I said to myself, this feels good. Let me do this to my whole body. And that's how I learned to love and like me. What works for you may be different. Maybe it its your eyes, or hair, your pretty smile, or ears. Whatever it is, start some where.

Just know this. Regardless of the lies you were told growing up or even are hearing now, you are very special and deserve to love and like yourself. You should be having a love affair with yourself because if no one else on the planet is showing you love, you are showing yourself love. In the bible it tells you tell to love your neighbor as you love yourself. Most people focus on the love thy neighbor part. The key to the scripture is
love thyself. You can't give love if you don't know love. You can only give like. And there is a difference between liking and loving. Liking makes you loyal to something or someone and you are using your brain to process these emotions. Loving makes you feel with your heart, mind, body and spirit. It is unconditional, it goes the extra mile and takes you into the type of love that God feels for you.

Jesus asked us to do one thing because he wanted us to feel what he felt for us. Jesus also loved himself. How do I know? In order to love us so well and unconditionally give of himself, he had to first love himself unconditionally. He could only give to us what he was able to give to himself. Do you want to see your life improve, relationships be better and you be happier? Make sure you are loving all of yourself as best you can. At the bottom of this blog I have included a self-inventory. This self-inventory is designed for you to reflect on the positive attributes that you have so that you can start the process of loving yourself, to think about your future and the legacy you want to leave behind.


Self-Inventory


1. List Three Physical Attributes that you like about yourself.


2. List two personality traits that you are happy you have.


3. List three skills, talents or gifts that you have.


4. If you had a t-shirt that described you, what would it say?


5. If you had the choice of doing one particular thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?


6. Close your eyes for a few moments and visualize something that would make you very happy at this time in your life, please write it down.



7.What is the one thing you really like about the person you call your best friend?



8. Do you possess the same quality that you listed in #7?


9. If you could instantly change one thing about yourself, what would it be and why?


10. What is the one thing people say to you, about how you impact them most frequently and do you agree or disagree? Why


11. What would you like people to remember most about you when it is all said and done? What is the legacy you want to leave behind?


From this formula, one legacy I hope you leave behind is that you did what Jesus Christ asked you to do: that you Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.And second Love your neighbor as yourself.
This was an excerpt from my book Lady Day's Pearls of Wisdom available in the store on www.ladycharmaineday.com, on Amazon and Barnes and Noble. I pray that you have been blessed by this blog post and that God blesses you with the desires of your heart in the name of Jesus Christ. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Sunday Message: Sorry that you didn't win the lottery but praise God for what you do have by Lady Charmaine Day

4/16/2023

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#HelloBeautiful!!!#SundayMessage
While you may not have won the lottery, you are the ultimate winner in the game of life. Why? Because many woke up today hungry, without a source of income, without being in their right frame of mind but not you. You are truly and deeply loved by God and are living under his grace, favor and mercy. God has provided you with food, a beautiful home, source of income and the ability to use all of your limbs and mind. So count your blessings, the real ones. Know that in the scheme of things,you are ARE BLESSED AND HIGHLY FAVORED!!!
Don't forget it nor the fact that you are very, very special! You're never too old or too late to be blessed by God!!! For more healthy lifestyle insight, Lady Day's Pearls of Wisdom:
https://www.ladycharmaineday.com/store/p46/Lady_Day%27s_Pearls_Of_Wisdom.html
Please join me in celebrating my 15 year ministry and Taboo Talk anniversary by getting Black Ivy Footwear,Clothing and Music I created:
https://www.ladycharmaineday.com/black-ivy-brand.html
I pray that you are having a good Day and that you God blesses you with a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, peace, happiness, good health, prosperity and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time,take care of yourself and stay special!!! Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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God Will Make A Way Out of No Way For You by Lady Charmaine Day

4/7/2023

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Introduction to the Resurrection Message:
Hello Beautiful!!!Happy Resurrection Sunday!!I hope on this day you are overjoyed with the Good news of our Lord and Savior's Jesus Christ victory over death and satan! What is even better news is that he is still on the job! None of us have gotten a communication memo since we've been alive telling us that he has quit on the job. Therefore whatever we set out to do we are already winners because Jesus died so we could be victorious in every area of our lives. And most importantly have a relationship with God. I hope you are feeling like you should, blessed and highly favored because you are very very special! 
This month is the 15th  year anniversary of Unlimited Help Online Ministry and me producing and hosting my show Taboo Talk!!! Thank you soooooo much for being apart of Unlimited Help Online Ministry. Your presence here is prayed for and wanted. God bless your precious heart for your thoughtfulness, kindness and support.In celebration of this Anniversary,I wrote my 2023 Resurrection Sunday message: 
God Will Make A Way Out of No Way For YOU!!!

Sunday Resurrection Message:
#HelloBeautiful!!! Happy Resurrection Sunday!!! Praise God for Jesus Christ Overcoming satan and death. To reign victoriously with our Heavenly Father so that you and I could have a personal relationship with God.  Thank God for Jesus Christ and his favor, mercy, grace and peace of mind. That's why you have to trust in your heart mind body and soul that God just will make a way out of no way for you. Regardless of your circumstances, at all times, God is in control. Stop for a minute and let that marinate in your mind. God your Heavenly Father is in control and he has you in the palm of his hands. At all times he is caring and loving you and working things out for your higher good so relax. He is opening doors that are closed to others for you. He is giving you favor with those in positions of power, he is blessing your home and children, basically he is taking care of all your needs and wants. Psalms 23:1 says the Lord is my shepherd I shall not want. What this means is that all your needs are taking care of and your wants too if Jesus Christ is your Lord and Savior. So you can rest and breathe easier knowing God is making ways for you when you can’t see away. That is why he is God. He can make the supernatural occur. And basically that’s what he wants to do. He wants for you to praise him for delivering you out of your circumstances. He wants you to come to him and thank him for what he has done. So continue to believe in God for deliverance to a highest level in every area of your life and for a deliverance from any problem that you may be facing. And when you seek his face, ask him once for help and just praise him talk to him about what else is going on in your life. Listen for what the Holy Spirit wants you to know. Read your Bible for divine revelation and you will be enlightened. God will bless you. Continue to seek God’s face. Never stop believing and having hope that God will make a way out of no way because he will. He will deliver you!!! Praise God!!!
I pray that God blesses you for your thoughtfulness, kindness and support with the desires of your heart in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen 
Sending you love from my side of the world. 
Happy Resurrection Sunday!!!
Sincerely, 
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry 
www.ladycharmaineday.com 
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Palm Sunday by Lady Charmaine Day

4/2/2023

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#HelloBeautiful!!!
Happy Palm Sunday!!!
Please remember to set aside time today to celebrate our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. During this time of celebration, remember to thank and praise him for all that he has done in your life because he has been so good to you. You serve an awesome God who cares about you and has made provision for you to have an abundant life because of the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Continue to read your Bible and get to know God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit for yourself. God hears every word you say to him. God cares about you. In fact your happiness and having a good relationship with you is very important to him. So know that you are dearly loved, protected, cared for and blessed wherever you are.
Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me."This verse doesn't say some things but ALL. Therefore anything you put your mind to you can achieve. Remember what I always say that "a delay is not a denial but a greater delivery!!!"There is one thing that God has shown me over and over to be true:
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE IF YOU BELIEVE IN HIM! Put your life in God's hands. Ask God to order your footsteps. Trust God to work out situations on your behalf. And you will see miracles and blessings because of his grace and favor. I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal Palm Sunday filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity and peace of mind in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Please know that I am here for you and I am praying for you and your family.Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Happy Palm Sunday!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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15 Years Anniversary Reflection by Lady Charmaine Day

4/1/2023

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#HelloBeautiful!!!New Month. New Season. New Beginning. Remember what I always say that a delay is not a denial but a greater delivery!!!
Have you been waiting for the right time to start implementing your plans and goals?
Today begins a new month, new season, and represents a new beginning. It's no better time than the present to implement your plans and goals that will move you forward to the next level.
Remember that you are the temple of God. You are God's representative on this planet. Be the best you possible. From this point forward eat healthy, nutritious food and drinks. Take care of yourself as your Thank you to God for the gift of life.
You are responsible for your happiness and good health. Choose to be Happy and healthy. Do the things you know will make you happy and eat only good food and drink. Choose to be happy,healthy and the best you possible.
Remember, Luke 1:37 "for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!!" Please join me in celebrating you me or someone you love who is a Black Ivy league graduate and order your own Black Ivy Footwear,Clothing, and Music that I created:
https://www.ladycharmaineday.com/black-ivy-brand.html
This April is a milestone for me, 15 years!!! 15 years of being Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry and host and producer of Taboo Talk Radio and Podcast show. It's time to celebrate by getting your own Black Ivy products and by getting your funny on!!!Laughter is medicine for the spirit. God wants you to always be filled with joy, hope and wonder. Laughter is evidence of your happiness. That you take joy in the little things. Laughter can clear out your insides and make you feel 100% better than before you expressed yourself. It is important to balance life between work and play, having fun and being serious. Making time to have fun and laugh is not a want but a need that will keep you young at heart and healthy.
With everything going on in the world, remembering to find joy and laughter can help heal you.
April 1st I had the funny, multi-talented, uplifting and engaging comedian
Curtis B. Sterling
sharing ways to find laughter
during this crisis.
About Curtis B. Sterling
40 years of Stand Up Comedy
30 years of MCing for different DJs and events.
Now venturing into indie filming...
Help me help you by watching this inspirational programming to get the knowledge you need
to help yourself along your spiritual journey and most importantly during this crisis. You'll be glad that you did!!!
Show url:
https://youtu.be/uBpu_ZjRbaQ
I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal month filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity, peace of mind and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Sunday Message:Hello Beautiful!!!How To Have Peace In The Midst of Turbulent Times by Lady Charmaine Day

3/12/2023

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Sunday Message:
Hello Beautiful!!!How To Have Peace In The Midst of Turbulent Times by Lady Charmaine Day
We are living in turbulent times. Every day the news reports that our time is plagued by racism, police brutality and life-ending diseases and weather. When we see frightening news about death and destruction, it easy to lose your peace of mind and to be overwhelmed by fear, worry and anxiety.How are we to have peace in the middle of turbulent times? Peace comes from knowledge. If you knew that you were protected and blessed wherever you went, you wouldn't feel fear, or worry, or doubt, instead you will feel confidence and most importantly peace. This knowledge comes from knowing and believing the fundamental truths of your faith. God promised you in his word in Deuteronomy 28:1-13 that if you would fully obey the Lord your God and carefully follow all his commands that the Lord your God gave you in the the ten commandments, that he will set you high above all the nations on earth and that blessings will come on you and accompany you if you obey the Lord your God. This includes being blessed in the city and blessed in the country. That your children will be blessed and your work would be blessed. That you will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out. God promised you that when enemies rise up against you will be defeated before you. They will come at you from one direction but flee from you in seven. So that you would never have any doubts, or fears, God promised you that he would bless everything you put your hand to and that he would establish you as his holy people. Because God has made you a holy people, all the peoples on earth will see that you are called by the name of the Lord, and they will fear you. God promised you abundant prosperity in every area of your life, with your children, your finances and your work, everything that he has blessed you with. He even told you that he will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to bless all the work of your hands. God promised that you will be so blessed that you will lend to many nations but will borrow from none and that God will make you the head, not the tail. So the knowledge of whose you are and what God you serve should comfort you in times likes these and give you the faith you need to live at peace. Regardless of your circumstances or what you are going through, in every situation you can find the good that God is giving you. How? How do you find God and his goodness in the midst of trials and tribulations? First start by changing your thinking and vision so that you can see God's presence in your life. You can do this by looking at your situation. Things could always be a million times worse than your current state of affairs. God's mercy, grace and favor kept you from experiencing something far more horrible than what you are going through. Second, when in the midst of your crisis, do you notice people are blessing you with kindness and compassion, that's God in action. God works through people to bless you and uplift you. Third, draw closer to him by consistently praying to him and praising him for all the blessings that he has given you. Lastly, adopt an attitude of constant gratitude for the things he has done in your life. I know personally from experience in my darkest days because of my changed thinking and vision, I have been able to look passed my circumstances and see God's hand on my life protecting me, taking me through the storm I had been facing and sending people at just the right time to help me. That's why I can say God is good all the time. You can do this too by choosing to see God at work in your life because he is right there caring for you and seeing you through. We serve an awesome God who is in control of this world and who cares for you. By implementing the few steps I suggested you will notice God's presence in your life and will feel peace, a peace that surpasses all understanding. You will be glad that you took time to follow the steps that I suggested. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
​Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"
Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at ladycharmaineday@gmail.com or 347-602-6234
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March 08th, 2023

3/8/2023

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#HelloBeautiful!!!
Happy International Women's Day!!!
God bless you!!!
God bless your family!!!
When God made you, he made one of his best creations. You are truly wonderfully and divinely made. Let your light shine so that when people meet you, they meet a true reflection of God. Remember at all times that you are an ambassador of God.Be the best representation of God that you can be!
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Are you searching for positive, uplifting and informative information to help you? Then watch my Taboo Talk Podcast on my website. There you will see subject matter experts on mental health and other subjects:
https://www.ladycharmaineday.com/taboo-talk-podcast.html
Please join me in celebrating you or someone you love who is a Black Ivy league graduate and order your own Black Ivy Footwear and Clothing that I created:
https://www.ladycharmaineday.com/black-ivy-brand.html
I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity, peace of mind and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
#LadyCharmaineDay
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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March 04th, 2023

3/4/2023

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#HelloBeautiful!!!Marchis Women's Month!!! In recognition of women, I had dynamic women speakers on Taboo Talk!!!! Today on March 4th I had a special episode of Taboo Talk Radio show. March 4th is the only day of the year that is a command. March fourth.In all that you do, do your very best.Why?Your talents, skills, and abilities are gifts from God. What you do with those gifts should be your gift back to God, your thank you for all that he has given to you. Your acknowledgment that he is the giver of all that you have and will accomplish. When you serve others as if you are serving God himself, it puts you on your ps and qs to do your best and that's what God calls you to do, to do your best for others, to be of service to others. When Jesus came, he said in Matthew 23:11 "but he that is greatest among you shall be your servant." And he also said in Mark 9:35"...if any man desire to be first,the same shall be last of all and servant of all." Jesus himself came according to Matthew 20:28"...not to be ministered unto, but to minister,and to give his life as a ransom for many." You and I should desire to follow the beautiful example Jesus has set for us to be of service to others. So give, give of your time, talents, skills and abilities to help uplift and empower others. I encourage you to examine your life to see what are you doing to help others and to recognize when you do give, are you giving your very best or half-heartedly? I implore you not to sleep on the job, and to give your best every time you set out to give because God works through people and he uses you and I to help others. As a result of God working through people,you and I become ambassadors for God in our every day lives. Are you the best ambassador possible for God? Are you a good or poor reflection of God working through you? How you act towards others and conduct your every day affairs determines the answer to that question, so in all that you do, do your very best! You'll be glad that you did!
Taboo Talk Radio show had Mrs. Arlene Day aka Mama Day as the guest speaker sharing valuable life lessons.
This is a show that you don't want to miss. Show url: http://tobtr.com/11685861
For more information on Mrs. Arlene Day aka Mama Day visit www.mrsarleneday.com
I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal weekend filled with God's grace, mercy and favor wherever you go in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Sleep and Peace of Mind Reflection  by Lady Charmaine Day

3/2/2023

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#HelloBeautiful!!!
When trouble comes your way,
do you worry about your circumstances and feel fear that you won't make it out of the jam you find yourself in?
I ask you, do you truly believe in God?
I ask the question because bad things will happen and negative situations will occur.
It is at these times when your belief in God should sustain you and carry you through.
It is imperative that you come to a place in your life where you are not moved by your circumstances and you do not worry about the negative situations you find yourself in because you know
without a shadow of a doubt
that God is real,
God is in control and
God has you in the palm of his hands.
God is not going to let anyone or
anything harm you
because you are his child.
God is in control!!!
At no time did he quit.
So exhale.
Let go and let God.
Breathe.
Relax.
Close your eyes tonight
Exhale.
And get a good night's sleep
Sending you love and appreciation from my side of the world.
Your pastor,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Happy New Year by Lady Charmaine Day

12/31/2022

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#HelloBeautiful!!! Happy New Year!!!Praise God that we are alive, healthy and have made it all the way through 2022, praise God, with God's blessings: a roof over our heads, clothing on our back, food on our table, a source of income, sanity and good times with family and friends. God has been so good to you and I. I pray that 2023 is your year! I pray that in this year, God blesses you with more favor and grace than ever before and that you experience more good health, joy, peace of mind, happiness, love, prosperity, rest, and good times than ever before in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
HAPPY NEW YEAR BEAUTIFUL!!!
This year focus on getting yourself together and being the best you possible. If you need to take time to get yourself together and by that I mean in shape and healthy, then do so. You are worth it. Your body is the temple of God. Live so that you can experience all of the promises of God found in Deuteronomy 28: 1-13. This year thank God for his mercy. He heard our cries for help and answered us when we needed him most. God is good. So also focus on your relationship with God. He is your greatest asset. Are you taking time to talk to God? Does God know what's on your mind and in your heart? If not, get about speaking to our Heavenly Father about your cares and he will take care of each and every one of them if you leave them in his capable hands.
You are precious, special and beautiful. Treat yourself best this year. Love and like you. Spoil you. Take care of you. Appreciate yourself for who and what you are in the scheme of things, a beautiful blessed child of God. Let this be a good year for you and yours by staying positive, healthy and in relationship with God.
This week please watch my video on self-love and self-care called:
Lady Charmaine Day's Educate, Enlighten and Empower Workshop:
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You are the temple of God and God's representation on this planet. You are God's best. Love and appreciate you because we only have one you!!!
I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal weekend filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity, peace of mind and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Until next time,take care of yourself and stay special!!! Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
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Sunday Message By Lady Charmaine Day

9/18/2022

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#HelloBeautiful!!!
My Sunday Message is Life, like football,
sometimes you have to take it yard by yard and
inch by inch until you obtain your goals.
The key is not to stop.
And if someone or something tries to block you,
move, go around, or tackle it out of the way so nothing stops you from reaching your goals. So keep on moving, doing what you need to do to accomplish your goals and know that God will continue to grant you favor wherever you go so that you can achieve whatever you endeavor to do. Remember to have a plan, think on that plan, make provision for that plan, thank God for the plan and act on the plan with a plan of action.  YOU deserve to have the best life possible!!!  So do the things you know to do to have the best you possible!!!  You’ll be glad that you did!

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I pray that you are having a good Day and that you have a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, peace, happiness, good health, prosperity and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen.

Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!! Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
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Sunday Message by Lady Charmaine Day

8/7/2022

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#HelloBeautiful!!!
You may feel that if you do the right thing by getting a degree or a good job than you have created a safety net for yourself. There is no such thing in this world as a safety net. It is an illusion we set up in our minds if we think that the degree that we obtained or the job that we have is going to be our “safety net” and be a child of God too. God did not design his relationship with us for us to create our own man made safety net. According to Psalm 91 it says that we are to find refuge in God and that he is to be our strength and protection.
Many people I know they think they are superman or superwoman because of the position that they have obtained in life and the degrees that they have obtained. Those are accomplishments, things that they have gotten in the past, ways to live, but now in the present are becoming their obligation and their only sense of comfort because God is not number one in their life.It is clear to see if God is at the forefront of someone’s life for me because of the sense of peace in the midst of storms that they have. There is less chaos and confusion when you serve God and know that he wants you to live a life on purpose not obligation to a degree or a position. Things can be removed, jobs eliminated, degrees become obsolete, new technologies emerge and what once made you a God unto yourself makes you worthless in your own eyes. Or they can start to feel like they are trapped into continuing to work at a job they hate or within a profession they abhor as if there is nothing else that they can do.There is something else that can be done.Release your hold on your false safety nets.Release your need to be recognized and the superhero. Let Go and Let God.Realize that the true safety you have is in your relationship with Jesus Christ. He is your lord and savior and wants you to live a satisfying life. And stand on the scripture Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me.” Then begin to do what makes you truly happy and live out your purpose.
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I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity, peace of mind and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen

Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
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Mental Health Advocate
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July 27th, 2022

7/27/2022

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Warren Benjamin, Happy 12 years Anniversary, a dozen!!! Thank you soooooo much for a beautiful blessed life and family!!! Lindamichellebaron, Gina Rizzo-Epstein, Jess Epstein, Myah Epstein, Mom, Dad, Aunt Marilyn, Cousin Charlie, Quicha, Wayne, Nelly, Yolanda, Howie, and Ms. Flora thank you soooooo much for celebrating our 12 year wedding anniversary with us. We appreciate it and you! God bless you for your thoughtfulness and support. Sending you love from my side of the world. Our 12 year wedding anniversary, our dozen, was truly a blessed celebration all month long!!!!
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Reflection: 2022 World Bipolar Day by Lady Charmaine Day

3/30/2022

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#HelloBeautiful!!!
Today is World Bipolar Day.
In 1997, 25 years ago I was diagnosed with Bipolar. For the first 5 years I didn't accept it. I felt it attacked my identity as a "smart" person. When I came to accept that it is a health issue, a medical problem that can be managed my whole life changed. I accepted my diagnosis, take my meds,sleep,eat right and do what is nessary to stay sane. There is more to my journey. Please visit my store to purchase my testimony:
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There are great groups for support like NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. Since 2008, I have been volunteering with NAMI NYC www.naminyc.org in a variety of capacities including being a NAMI In Our Own Voice presenter and state wide trainer. Sharing my story of recovery and success hopes and dreams helps me stay on the road of recovery and I hope helps others come to acceptance of the disease and the fact that mental illness happens to people who look just like you. If you are suffering with mental illness know you are not alone and there is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact most of the most famous and highly impactful people who have lived or are living have had mental illness, such as President Abraham Lincoln, JFK, Vincent Van Gogh, Charles Schultz, Janet Jackson, and Roseann Barr. So you are in great company. Well sorry for this long post.it just hit home that many people we know suffer in unacceptance and don't get treatment and that is such a hard place to be. I just wanted to say I understand and its okay. You're not alone I understand. On World Bipolar Day and every day you exist is for a purpose and have a reason to be your best self possible. Get help. Remember, Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!!"
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I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you in Jesus Christ name.
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Sunday Message: Lessons I Have Learned After Being Diagnosed Bipolar Type 1 by Lady Charmaine Day

10/2/2021

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I am me. It took me a long time, 36 years, to learn to H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E and to love and like me. That was lesson one. The second one was to accept every part of me. That took me 4 years. And the third was to realize what decisions I was making to keep myself in a victim mode. By embracing the fact that I am made in God's image and that he doesn't make mistakes...I have moved to loving me. And I have been spoiling me!!! : )​
I keep the child in me alive by collecting African American Barbie dolls. I am giving to others through my ministry, NAMI, and my personal friendships. Most importantly I have forgiven everyone, including myself, for my past and making my present a gift to me.
One thing I wish someone would have told me besides H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E. is you are made up of a body, spirit, and mind. All three have to be taken care of and taken into consideration when you are hit with any illness, problem or negative situation. Since human beings are comprised of a body, spirit, and mind, all three must be taken care of and taken into account when managing any kind of problem. I have learned that you must take care of your body with proper nutrition, exercise, rest and vitamin supplements. You must also work very closely with your medical provider to secure the best possible treatment. This includes educating yourself about available treatment methods and medications for your condition, and articulating any side effects you may experience to your doctor immediately so that he/she can make dosage adjustments as necessary. Regarding your spirit, I have learned from experience that being spiritually grounded will help get you through the darkest days you will face. Know that you can achieve spiritual health by praying consistently, reading your scriptures and books on your faith, and by meditating to quiet your mind so that you can achieve spiritual balance. You also need to nurture your mind by reading positive affirmations, listening to uplifting music, and by only watching shows that espouse and promote healthy ideas that can teach you new things and help you to expand your horizons. Finally, by helping others, you will also make yourself feel good as you are making a contribution to society and at the same time stimulating your mind. I consistently give of myself to others via Taboo Talk, writing messages on my blog and volunteering. When you are right spiritually, on the correct medications for your brain/body, and are feeding your mind positive thoughts and affirmations, you can only be one thing: HEALTHY and HAPPY.
Remember to treat your temple like what it is, a temple. Stop abusing your body! Treat the gift of life with reverence and respect. Honoring God by taking care of the precious gift of life he has given you. From this point forward, make it a point to eat healthy, exercise and be the best representation of God on the planet.
And lastly, I am living proof that you can come back from anything and have a good life.
Remember that a delay is not a denial but a greater delivery. God will give you mercy in your time of need if you pray for it. And when it comes, it is so sweet and always on time. Don’t forget to praise God for his mercy!
I pray that you are having a good Day and that you have a phenomenal remainder of the week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, peace, happiness, good health, prosperity and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"
Amen
Sending you love from my side of the world.
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Sunday's Message: Are You in God's Will for Your Life? by Lady Charmaine Day

8/15/2021

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Sunday Message: Are You in God's Will for Your Life?
Hello Beautiful! How are you doing? I hope great. Because if not, then I want you to check to make sure that you are walking in alignment with God's will for your life. How do you do this? By reading and following the ten commandments God gave us in the Bible and following the directives Jesus gave us while on Earth. It is always good to refresh yourself on exactly what you are suppose to be doing so that all can be going well for you.
God said in Exodus 20: 1-19
New International Version (NIV)
The Ten Commandments
1 And God spoke all these words:
2 “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
3 “You shall have no other gods before[a] me.
4 “You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. 5 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, 6 but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.
7 “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.
8 “Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. 9 Six days you shall labor and do all your work, 10 but the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your male or female servant, nor your animals, nor any foreigner residing in your towns. 11 For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.
12 “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.
13 “You shall not murder.
14 “You shall not commit adultery.
15 “You shall not steal.
16 “You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.
17 “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”
Jesus said in Matthew 19:16 And, behold, one came and said unto him, Good Master, what good thing shall I do, that I may have eternal life?
17 And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments.
18 He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said, Thou shalt do no murder, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness,
19 Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
I pray that this information you helps you and that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity and peace of mind in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

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Sunday Message: Take Time For Self-Love and Self-Care by Lady Charmaine Day

8/1/2021

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Fatigue can be costly. One bad decision made from being tired can create countless tragedies. When Jesus Christ was on Earth he always took time to separate himself from the world. He knew he could only give away that which he possessed. Work time is giving. Rest time is receiving. You must have both. God created the Earth in six days but he took time to rest on the seventh day. He set an example for us. Jesus did the same thing. Jesus understood the balance of rest and work, which I feel is the reason he was able to accomplish so much in three and half years. Life is demanding. The more you succeed, the more people will demand of you. To grow you must rebuild. Rebuilding yourself will require your attention. Work hard but play and rest just as hard. Schedule it. Take one day a week to schedule time to totally relax. Focus on something different. Your mind will think clearer. You will make better decisions. You will see life through different eyes and you will continue to grow.


Today, for more on self-care and self-love please watch my Educate, Enlighten and Empower Workshop above.​

I pray that you are having a good Day and that you have a phenomenal week filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, peace, happiness, good health, prosperity and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Sunday Message: Are You Being Shrewd And Taking Care Of Your Temple? by Lady Charmaine Day

7/17/2021

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Jesus told his disciples: “There was a rich man whose manager was accused of wasting his possessions. So he called him in and asked him, ‘What is this I hear about you? Give an account of your management, because you cannot be manager any longer.’ “The manager said to himself, ‘What shall I do now? My master is taking away my job. I’m not strong enough to dig, and I’m ashamed to beg— I know what I’ll do so that, when I lose my job here, people will welcome me into their houses.’ “So he called in each one of his master’s debtors. He asked the first, ‘How much do you owe my master?’ “ ‘Nine hundred gallons of olive oil,’ he replied. “The manager told him, ‘Take your bill, sit down quickly, and make it four hundred and fifty.’ “Then he asked the second, ‘And how much do you owe?’ “ ‘A thousand bushels of wheat,’ he replied. “He told him, ‘Take your bill and make it eight hundred.’ “The master commended the dishonest manager because he had acted shrewdly. For the people of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their own kind than are the people of the light. I tell you, use worldly wealth to gain friends for yourselves, so that when it is gone, you will be welcomed into eternal dwellings. “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches? And if you have not been trustworthy with someone else’s property, who will give you property of your own? “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.”
Luke 16:1‭-‬13 NIV

Are you being shrewd in how you are taking care of your temple, your body, the spirit of God living inside of you?

So be shrewd

What does shrewd mean? Having or showing sharp powers of judgment; astute. For example: "she was shrewd enough to guess the motive behind his gesture"
synonyms: astute, sharp-witted, sharp, acute, intelligent, clever, alert, canny, media-savvy, perceptive, perspicacious, observant, discriminating, sagacious, sage, wise, far-seeing, far-sighted;

If God can't trust you to take care of your temple, why are you asking Him for anything else? Start today to maintain your frame. Here's a question for you: If not now, when? When will you change to become the precious man or woman of God that God created you to be? When? When will you start living on purpose, taking the best care of yourself and living out your passion, when? When will you stop making excuses and start doing what ever it is you say you need to do? When. Now, my sister or brother, now is the time. All the power of God is focused in the here and now and there is no better time than the present to change. You have the power within you through the Holy Spirit to be the best you possible!!! Don't waste another moment doing it the wrong way. From this point forward make a conscious decision to live on purpose and to be your best self possible by eating healthy, exercising and drinking plenty of water. You are the temple of God and God's representation on this planet. You are God's best. Love and appreciate you because we only have one you!!!

Heavenly Father,thank you for watching over and providing for the special person reading this message.Father please continue to bless them with more love,joy,peace,happiness, good health and prosperity. Please bless them with more of your favor,mercy and grace. Father help them to be shrewd in their affairs and with themselves. Father thank you in advance for answering this short prayer. In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen!

Sending you love and appreciation from my side of the world!!! Until next time,take care of yourself and stay special!!! Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay 
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
 
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How To Have Peace Of Mind Now by Lady Charmaine Day

11/3/2020

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We are living in turbulent times. Every day the news reports that our time is plagued by racism, police brutality and life-ending diseases and weather. When we see frightening news about death and destruction, it easy to lose your peace of mind and to be overwhelmed by fear, worry and anxiety.How are we to have peace and sanity in the middle of turbulent times? Peace comes from knowledge. If you knew that you were protected and blessed wherever you went, you wouldn't feel fear, or worry, or doubt, instead you will feel confidence and most importantly peace of mind and sanity. This sanity and knowledge comes from knowing and believing the fundamental truths of your faith. God promised you in his word in Deuteronomy 28:1-13 that if you would fully obey the Lord your God and carefully follow all his commands that the Lord your God gave you in the the ten commandments, that he will set you high above all the nations on earth and that blessings will come on you and accompany you if you obey the Lord your God. This includes being blessed in the city and blessed in the country. That your children will be blessed and your work would be blessed. That you will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out. God promised you that when enemies rise up against you will be defeated before you. They will come at you from one direction but flee from you in seven. So that you would never have any doubts, or fears, God promised you that he would bless everything you put your hand to and that he would establish you as his holy people. Because God has made you a holy people, all the peoples on earth will see that you are called by the name of the Lord, and they will fear you. God promised you abundant prosperity in every area of your life, with your children, your finances and your work, everything that he has blessed you with. He even told you that he will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to bless all the work of your hands. God promised that you will be so blessed that you will lend to many nations but will borrow from none and that God will make you the head, not the tail. So the knowledge of whose you are and what God you serve should comfort you in times likes these and give you the faith you need to live at peace. Regardless of your circumstances or what you are going through, in every situation you can find the good that God is giving you. How? How do you find God and his goodness in the midst of trials and tribulations? First start by changing your thinking and vision so that you can see God's presence in your life. You can do this by looking at your situation. Things could always be a million times worse than your current state of affairs. God's mercy, grace and favor kept you from experiencing something far more horrible than what you are going through. Second, when in the midst of your crisis, do you notice people are blessing you with kindness and compassion, that's God in action. God works through people to bless you and uplift you. Third, draw closer to him by consistently praying to him and praising him for all the blessings that he has given you. Lastly, adopt an attitude of constant gratitude for the things he has done in your life. I know personally from experience in my darkest days because of my changed thinking and vision, I have been able to look passed my circumstances and see God's hand on my life protecting me, taking me through the storm I had been facing and sending people at just the right time to help me. That's why I can say God is good all the time. You can do this too by choosing to see God at work in your life because he is right there caring for you and seeing you through. We serve an awesome God who is in control of this world and who cares for you. By implementing the few steps I suggested you will notice God's presence in your life and will feel peace, a peace and sanity that surpasses all understanding. You will be glad that you took time to follow the steps that I suggested. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!

​Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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What I Know to Help You Now by Lady Charmaine Day

10/11/2020

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To The Very Special Person Reading This: Hello Beautiful!!! You have to trust in your heart mind body and soul that God just will make a way out of no way for you. Regardless of your circumstances at all times God is in control. Stop for a minute and let that marinate in your mind. God your Heavenly Father is in control and he has you in the palm of his hands. At all times he is caring and loving you and working things out for your higher good so relax. He is opening doors that are closed to others for you. He is giving you favor with those in positions of power, he is blessing your home and children, basically he is taking care of all your needs and wants. Psalms 23:1 says the Lord is my shepherd I shall not want. What this means is that all your needs are taking care of and your wants too if Jesus Christ is your lord and shepherd. So you can rest and breathe easier knowing God is making ways for you when you can’t see away. That is why he is God. He can make the supernatural occur. And basically that’s what he wants to do. He wants for you to praise him for delivering you out of your circumstances. He wants you to come to him and thank him for what he has done. So continue to believe in God for deliverance to a highest level in every area of your life and for a deliverance from any problem that you may be facing. And when you seek his face, ask him once for help and just praise him talk to him about what else is going on in your life. Listen for what the Holy Spirit wants you to know. Read your Bible for divine revelation and you will be enlightened. God will bless you. Continue to seek God’s face. Never stop believing and having hope that God will make a way out of no way because he will. He will deliver you. Remember what I always say, "a delay is not a denial but a greater delivery!!!"
​Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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When Your Family Works Your Nerves by Lady Charmaine Day

7/31/2020

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Each day is a present.
Never forget that.
We don't know how long each of us has.
So let go of anger.
So let go of resentment.
So let go of negative stinking thinking.
And enjoy the present.
You have a beautiful family.
Look at their good things,
not their flaws.
Remember why you fell in love in the first place.
And why you are in love now.
It is all good.
God has blessed you over and over again.
Never forget where you came from and where you are now.
You are alive, sane, healthy with your own family living on your own terms.
God is good!!!
So when your loved one does something to work your nerves, remember to be grateful that you have them.Remember, your family is a gift from God. Everyone doesn't have what you have. So be a good steward over your gift. Remember you can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens you (Philippians 4:13)
When I hit a wall, I remember that God is in control. I am God's child and everything will be alright in the name of Jesus Christ. Let that sink in and become your own affirmation.You are a beacon of light. Do what you need to do so that your light can shine. So just love your family. In arguments, be the bigger person. Seek a peaceful and happy home by being peaceful and happy. Always remember that you are blessed. God blessed you with another day to love your family. So love them.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!! Sending you love from my side of the world.
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Faith by Lady Charmaine Day

6/9/2020

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Faith. It takes faith to have anything. Faith is believing in spite of what you see. Faith is not a feeling because your feelings can and will betray you. Faith is hope. Hope is wanting something that does not exist to come into existence and believing it will come to pass. Obstacles. There will be many obstacles in your way that seem insurmountable. But if you believe in God and don’t flinch you will be fine.

How do you not flinch? You keep on going back to the point of belief where you know in your heart God will not fail you. You look at something that he did in the past, a miracle and depend on that for today. God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. God will make sure you are delivered to your miracle on time in the best way possible. Sometimes the best way is not your way, but it’s God’s way and God’s way is always the best. God rewards those who are faithful to him with his blessings, grace, favor and mercy. You can and will have all of those things if you have at least a mustard seed of faith.

What is a mustard seed of faith? It is as small as this . on the paper. It is very tiny. You can have at least that much faith. Faith is the key to believing in God. None of us have seen Jesus or God or the Holy Spirit so we are already showing that we have faith because we believe in something invisible we can’t see. We take the Bible as the living word of truth. That takes faith. So you already demonstrate faith simply by calling yourself Christian and following the commandments of God. You will have all the things you desire and the promises of God (which you can find in the Bible in  Deuteronomy 28:1-13) if you continue to have a relationship with God, follow the ten commandments and demonstrate this kind of faith.
Your faith will see you through all trials, tribulations and dark days because you know that you serve a might God who has made provision for you and your family. 
I pray God blesses you with his grace, mercy, favor, good health, and peace of mind in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen
Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

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Peace over Panic, Faith over Fear, Wisdom over Worry by Lady Charmaine Day

3/28/2020

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Hello Beautiful!!!
How are you? I pray good.
Today, we are in the middle of a crisis When a crisis occurs, it is survival of the fittest. Companies use the times as an excuse to clean house and do whatever they want to reform and to make a profit. And you, you are left to fend for yourself. To battle the corporate mind games of being in the rat race. To deal with the high cost of barely surviving. And if you are doing it in your own strength, just like you have done it all this time, how far do you think you are going to get?
WHO DO YOU THINK IS IN CONTROL?
WAKE UP!!!
God is in control.
And he is not bothered by
the sign of the times.
Because for those who call his name
he will hear them and
give them his grace, love, favor and mercy.

While diseases come over other houses, they will pass yours by.
Humble yourself and find God.
And the way back is simply to ask for forgiveness and to seek his face.
And to stand. Stand on scripture.
Philippians 4:13
"I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me."
Luke 1:37
"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"
Stand on this word until
you are the word
and the word and you are one.

Remember as you come and you go,
ask God to order your footsteps.
Pray for everything, your home, your job, your family, your friends, your happiness and for peace. Nothing good will be withheld from you, if you believe and have faith in God, not yourself.
I can tell you, that serving God and not relying on myself to get through life is easier.
I don't get stressed by what I see because I know he's got me.
Having a relationship with God and tying my self-image to this one fact:
I am a child of God, God has me,
gives me peace of mind and the confidence that I will be safe and secure throughout life's trials and tribulations. That my fate is not determined by man but God gives me peace.
A peace of mind that you can not buy.
And I want that for you.
Now is the time to make sure that your most valuable asset is your relationship with God and your most used resource is the Bible. Seek comfort in the fact that whatever you may face in this world, it will not overcome you because God will help keep you and protect you.
When trouble comes your way, do you worry about your circumstances and feel fear that you won't make it out of the jam you find yourself in? I ask you, do you truly believe in God? I ask the question because bad things will happen and negative situations will occur. It is at these times when your belief in God should sustain you and carry you through. It is imperative that you come to a place in your life where you are not moved by your circumstances and you do not worry about the negative situations you find yourself in because you know without a shadow of a doubt that God is real, he is in control and he has you in the palm of his hands. He is not going to let anyone or anything harm you because you are his child. God is in control!!! At no time did he quit. So exhale. Let go and let God. God loves you!!!
Isn't it good to be loved by him?
Today just let it marinate on God's goodness in your life and all the daily blessings he gives you and your family like your home, food, clothing, source of income and waking you up in this morning just to name a few. Take time out to just feel grateful for all the blessings you have and how the best is Gods love and you will feel a peace that will resonate throughout your body.

My prayer for you is that this weekend you have time to reflect on what matter's most and to give God the glory for all the blessings he has bestowed upon you. Remember, we serve a mighty God who loves you and has made provision for you because you are a child of 
​God. 

I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal weekend filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, good health, prosperity and peace of mind in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen

Please know that I am here for you and I am praying for you and your family.

Sending you love from my side of the world. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
👩🏽‍🦲👩🏽‍🦲👩🏽‍🦲❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
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50th Blog Post:Everything Has A Price...What's Yours? By Lady Charmaine Day

12/3/2019

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Everything has a price. What is yours? Do you know for what price you can be bought or sold? How much does it cost to lose your soul? Sanity can be measured. It is the ease at which you are able to breathe and sleep at night. It is the amount of frown lines you have in your face, it is the words that you never say and are never spoken about you in love and tenderness. For nothing, you give everything you have to go after the 5ws. The who, what, when, where, and why of the world. And the 5ws are:
Who…Who do I know, Whose network do I belong to, Who am I (my title, my position), and Who am I with (dating or married to).
What… What you look like. What you have. What you own. What you are (I am Doctor Jones etc.).
When…When do I get the next thing. When did I accomplish what I have now. When I get “X” then I’ll be happy or satisfied (but upon getting x you never are) and your life is driven by what age you accomplish something.
Where…Where do I live. Where do I work. Where do I or my family accomplish our daily active living.
Why…Why do I get what I have (the world calls it the halo effect when you get what you do because of a certain reason that most people have a favorable bias towards).
Thinking that once you have it, it will come. The it being the happy ending, the happiness that you had wanted all your life, the feeling of satisfaction, the never ceasing smile. But upon getting it, because that is what you tied your sanity to, you are never satisfied. Because you see, all of those are things, idols, things that you worshipped versus god and god said not to worship any other god but him.
I have been there and done that. My price, what I worshipped and got for the wrong reasons: husband, six figure income, title, car, house, all for the “right image”. Who was I posing for? The world. The world wasn’t feeding me, financing me or f***ing me so why did I give up my sanity for the right image? At the end of the day, when all of that was gone (all the "right image things" everything that I thought would make me happy), no one who was looking came to save me, except one. God.
God. The hand I let go of to pursue the right image, was the only one extended to me to stand back up. And when I dropped the S from my chest for being my own savior and superwoman and picked up the J for jesus, I truly began to live. I was 34. For 34 years I was the dead walking. Being alive, happy, content, fulfilled, I can honestly say, I never knew that before I surrendered to god for relationship.
Today, we are in the middle of hard times. When hard times occur, it is survival of the fittest. Companies use “the times” as an excuse to clean house and do whatever they want to reform and to make a profit. And you, you are left to fend for yourself. To battle the corporate mind games of being in the rat race. To deal with the high cost of barely surviving. And if you are doing it in your own strength, just like you have done it all this time, how far do you think you are going to get? WHO DO YOU THINK IS IN CONTROL? WAKE UP!!! God is in control. And he is not bothered by the sign of the times. Because for those who call his name he will hear them and give them his grace, love, favor and mercy. While plagues may come over other houses, they will pass yours by. Humble yourself and find God.
And the way back is simply to ask for forgiveness and to seek his face.
And to stand. Stand on scripture. Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me”. Stand on this word until you are the word and the word and you are one.
Remember as you come and you go, ask God to order your footsteps. Pray for everything, your home, your job, your family, your friends, your happiness and for peace. Nothing good will be withheld from you, if you believe and have faith in God, not yourself. I can tell you, that serving God and not relying on myself to get through life is easier. I don't get stressed by what I see because I know he's got me. Having a relationship with God and tying my self-image to this one fact: I am a Child of God, God has me, gives me peace of mind and the confidence that I will be safe and secure throughout life's trials and tribulations. That my fate is not determined by man but God gives me peace. A peace of mind that you can not buy. And I want that for you. Now is the time to make sure that your most valuable asset is your relationship with God and your most used resource is the bible. Seek comfort in the fact that whatever you may face in this world, it will not overcome you because God will help keep you and protect you.
Remember, stay blessed.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
​www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Sexual Energy: How To Motivate The Mic by Lady Charmaine Day

11/7/2019

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Planning on publishing my 9th book next year
​Here's an excerpt:


Sexual Energy,

How to motivate the mic

God gives each and every one of us talents. The Bible talks about how Jacob robbed Esau of his talent. That was man to man. So it shows us that a talent can be stolen when it is being bestowed upon someone as a generational gift. How does someone steal your talent once you have it? Sexual energy. In school, we are taught not to have unprotected sex. You are taught that you can catch a sexually transmitted disease and have unwanted pregnancy. But spiritually what happens? You become connected to the person you are having sex with. And you will always be in the history of that person. Part of their DNA if fluids are exchange. And just in general you are sharing your talent with that person. Now most people just have a spiritual linkage. They don’t form a bond deeper than a mutual exchange of sexual energy. However some people when they lay with you do so to steal your talent. They steal your talent by capturing the essence of you at the time you have an orgasmic release. This happens when the person stops seeing you with their physical senses and opens their spirit to connect with yours. They use their intuitive perception to form a connection. They start noticing the rhythm of your heartbeat. The timing of your being that your maker has set you at. Once you know someone’s timing you know how they accomplish goals in their life.
How do you motivate the mic? First of all, what is the mic? If the world is a stage, the mic is any instrument you use to motivate an individual or people to do some action for you. Whether it is reacting to something you created or feeling something from what you have done, the mic is the way you transmute your desire to people. How do you motivate the mic than? How do you get it to do your command? You have to know the timing of the mic in question. You have to understand how to make the mic come alive in your hands the moment you touch it. You know how to breathe life into the mic by understanding the timing of the mic’s craft. You learn the timing of the mic one of three ways: naturally, studying about the craft, or stealing the talent of someone who knows how to motivate the mic.
Today, beware of who you lay with.
I often laugh to myself. People who have slept with me and thought they have used me, in essence I have used them. While they were gaining sexual bliss from me, my mind was thinking about rhythm and timing and motivation. What motivates this person? What makes this person tick? How can they make me feel anything? How do they walk? How do they talk? What kind of presence do they have in a crowd? How do they protect me? How do they make me feel when I am with them? How do they make other people feel? Is their a light around them? What does that light look like? How does that light look in the reflection of my eyes or someone else’s? What does beautiful look like to them? What is ugly? What makes them good looking? What takes away from their character? What is their secret? Like the bottom line:why do I want you? Why have you made me stop whatever I am doing along my journey to focus my attention on you? What is special about you?
All of this goes on in the back of my brain. Every person I sleep with a character in a play. The play called my life. The stage the world. The audience people in my life. The light public scrutiny. The mic my pen, or the radio, or tv or a magazine or the internet. But from day one I knew to record it, later it would be analyzed by others, this is bigger me.
Why?
Sexual energy.
How to motivate the mic.
Questioning everything, wondering, pondering, just being inquisitive. Wondering how to gain myself back from losing myself in my lover’s grasp was my initial reasoning for trying to figure out the key to sexual energy.
And then once I understood that I would gain something. Not only myself back, but talent, it blew my mind.
Once I understood the principle of sexual energy, plus timing, plus motivating the mic, plus the first rule of comedy which is “fuck it”, I truly could implement the biblical principle I had been standing on “For with God nothing shall be impossible”

Look back over the tapestry of your life. And do the analysis I have done. Analyze fully the people you have slept with like I have and you will recognize the hidden talent within your spirit. For they are eternally linked with yours.

You hear the saying that old couples look alike, sound alike, walk alike. Why? Over time, one has the captured the sexual energy or the essence of the other’s being. They know the person’s rhythm, their timing, what motivates them, how they will react in any situation and thus they gain that person’s talent.

This is how it works.
Food for thought:
Now that you know, from this point forward, will you so loosely sleep with any ole body and give yourself away, give your talent away?
Hmm, marinate on that and let me know.


#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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