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Do For Others Now While They Are Here For You by Lady Charmaine Day

8/30/2017

To The Very Special Person Reading This: Hello Beautiful!!! You may not be loved by many people but those who do love you, love you well. With that in mind, don't wait until a loved one is gone to show them appreciation, give it to them now, when they are alive and can appreciate it. Spoil them and treat them with love and care they deserve because they make your life full of meaning. Tell them how their time, attention and nurturing impacted you and made you feel good. Show support and care about what they are doing. I pray you never feel like you wish you had done these things at their grave site. People are not mind readers. Let your friends, family, leaders, and those who impact you know how much you care. Tomorrow is not promised. So...Don't wait until someone's funeral to bring them flowers. Bring them flowers when,they are alive and often. Give them presents and gifts just because. Let it be said about you that you show the people you love a lot of time, love and affection. Do for others now while they are with you. Visit often. Hug deeply. Spend time. Be generous with your praise and gratitude to people for what they have done in your life. Send thank you notes when you receive gifts. Send thank you gifts when people do nice things for you. This effort will be greatly appreciated. Spend quality time with your family, friends and loved ones. Have events like tea time, dinners, movie night, or going out to a cultural event with them. Develop this bond because these are the people who love you the most. Remember to bless those who have been a blessing to you. Now. While they are alive and can appreciate it.Don't assume people know how grateful you are or how much you love and appreciate them. Say it. Show it.Be the blessing to them that have been there for you.Do unto
others as you have them do unto you.
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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It Is Your Life by Lady Charmaine Day

8/28/2017

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There comes a time when you have to look at yourself, honestly. We can blame our situation, our circumstances and everyone else for what is not going right in our lives but we have to take time out to see what is our part in our own mess. Because memo to self, it is your mess. You have to live within your own situation and handle the reality of your own world. No one else.Did you ever realize that no one inherently gets happy when you do? If you make a million dollars today, that’s your victory, no one elses. Just like your decision to get up and wash up is your decision and everything you do from that point forward, so is your happiness.You are responsible for the decisions you make it.You can ask other people for their opinions, validation, praise, or two cents, but at the end of the day, you have to live with what you decide.Know what is in your best interest.Do things to build yourself up versus tear yourself down.Stop making poor decisions out of fear.Do you realize that you can spend a lifetime inviting in the wrong people into your life and doing all the right things to make other people happy simply to belong, fit in, and please other people?The time for people pleasing, and self abuse is over.It is time for you to live your life to its fullest.Your circle is already complete whether or not you have another person in the room with you.You have with you at all times the presence of the holy spirit and god and jesus with you by calling on them in prayer.You are not alone.So stop inviting people into your world to fill up space and to stop feeling lonely.Analyze your circle and see if you have people in your life who genuinely care about you and are building you up.If you have people in your life who are constantly tearing you down, wearing out your self esteem and never seem to be happy for you, time to have a friendship divorce. Pack their bags and tell them to go. Party over.Life is too short for you to be surround be negative, dead people.Instead, invest the time that you were giving to those people to yourself and your prayer life with god. Become your number one fan, friend, and confidant. You are a good person and deserve only good things. Settle for nothing less in this year. Stay blessed!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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So you didn't win the Powerball $758 million jackpot. What now? by Lady Charmaine Day

8/26/2017

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Hello Beautiful!!! It's not going to happen with the wave of a magic wand or wishing to win lotto. No fairy Godmother is going to come and change us. that's not realistic or real life. If you want change, simply change your mind. Change your thought process, your outlook on life. Half full versus half empty. Enjoy the journey towards your goal and dream. The reward is how you get there, not the prize. If you build your life with the end in mind, making every step champagne and caviar and by paying attention to the details your house will be in order and you will be fine. Move your mind off of your circumstances and onto who you are and where you are going. Your reality will change. Faith. Jesus said if you have a mustard seed of faith you can move a mountain. A mustard seed is a small as this . period on this page.Any thought with 100% faith and belief that it will come true will change the direction of your ship and propel you quickly to your dreams.In the here and now is all power and influence.Reality is in this moment. Not yesterday or the past.God is also in the present in this second answering the desires of your heart as your heart manifest them.Without speaking your spirit is communicating to God your needs. He sees you in his mind eye. According to John 10:27-30 you are in Jesus's hand and God, nothing can or will snatch you from them. Therefore nothing can remove the hedge of protection, love or grace from God has around your life.Peace.Peace comes when you stop believing in the fake phony fairy tale solutions and go for the one genuine thing. Unfailable, undeniable, constant, omnipresent and true: GOD.What then do we pray for?How do we change our circumstances so that we meet our goals for 2017?Take a deep breath. Breathe. Then exhale. Know that God is in control. Enjoy the journey. You do your part. Show up, dress right, have your resources and supplies ready. Be ready to receive your blessings for it surely will come.Pray for wisdom and discernment. A deeper relationship with God, Jesus and the holy spirit. And the rest will be added unto you.Remember you are very special and to stay blessed!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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Hello Beautiful!!!8/24/2017 App message to you by Lady Charmaine Day

8/24/2017

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Remember to bless those
who have been a blessing to you.
Now.
While they are alive and can appreciate it.
Don't assume people know how grateful you are or
how much you love and appreciate them.
Say it.
Show it.
Be the blessing to them that have been there for you.
Do unto others as you have them do unto you.
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

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How To Have Peace In The Midst of Turbulent Times by Lady Charmaine Day

8/24/2017

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We are living in turbulent times. Every day the news reports that our time is plagued by racism, police brutality and life-ending diseases and weather. When we see frightening news about death and destruction, it easy to lose your peace of mind and to be overwhelmed by fear, worry and anxiety.How are we to have peace in the middle of turbulent times? Peace comes from knowledge. If you knew that you were protected and blessed wherever you went, you wouldn't feel fear, or worry, or doubt, instead you will feel confidence and most importantly peace. This knowledge comes from knowing and believing the fundamental truths of your faith. God promised you in his word in Deuteronomy 28:1-13 that if you would fully obey the Lord your God and carefully follow all his commands that the Lord your God gave you in the the ten commandments, that he will set you high above all the nations on earth and that blessings will come on you and accompany you if you obey the Lord your God. This includes being blessed in the city and blessed in the country. That your children will be blessed and your work would be blessed. That you will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out. God promised you that when enemies rise up against you will be defeated before you. They will come at you from one direction but flee from you in seven. So that you would never have any doubts, or fears, God promised you that he would bless everything you put your hand to and that he would establish you as his holy people. Because God has made you a holy people, all the peoples on earth will see that you are called by the name of the Lord, and they will fear you. God promised you abundant prosperity in every area of your life, with your children, your finances and your work, everything that he has blessed you with. He even told you that he will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to bless all the work of your hands. God promised that you will be so blessed that you will lend to many nations but will borrow from none and that God will make you the head, not the tail. So the knowledge of whose you are and what God you serve should comfort you in times likes these and give you the faith you need to live at peace. Regardless of your circumstances or what you are going through, in every situation you can find the good that God is giving you. How? How do you find God and his goodness in the midst of trials and tribulations? First start by changing your thinking and vision so that you can see God's presence in your life. You can do this by looking at your situation. Things could always be a million times worse than your current state of affairs. God's mercy, grace and favor kept you from experiencing something far more horrible than what you are going through. Second, when in the midst of your crisis, do you notice people are blessing you with kindness and compassion, that's God in action. God works through people to bless you and uplift you. Third, draw closer to him by consistently praying to him and praising him for all the blessings that he has given you. Lastly, adopt an attitude of constant gratitude for the things he has done in your life. I know personally from experience in my darkest days because of my changed thinking and vision, I have been able to look passed my circumstances and see God's hand on my life protecting me, taking me through the storm I had been facing and sending people at just the right time to help me. That's why I can say God is good all the time. You can do this too by choosing to see God at work in your life because he is right there caring for you and seeing you through. We serve an awesome God who is in control of this world and who cares for you. By implementing the few steps I suggested you will notice God's presence in your life and will feel peace, a peace that surpasses all understanding. You will be glad that you took time to follow the steps that I suggested. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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I'm Here For You by Lady Charmaine Day

8/23/2017

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Hello Beautiful!!!
The Bible predicted that we would experience lawlessness times like this during the last days.
Now more than ever you are called to be ambassadors of God in your community. Light in the midst of turbulent times holding our leaders accountable for their actions.
Remember that at no time did God quit. He is still in control.
Now is the time to pray for your country, those in leadership positions and for your family.

I want you to know that I am here for you if you are feeling overwhelmed by the times. My office number is 347-602-6234. I am here for you if you want to talk or need someone to pray with you. You are not alone. We both are in this moment together.
Sincerely,
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

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How To Get & Keep Sanity & Stability by Lady Charmaine Day

8/23/2017

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Someone asked me how do you get to sanity and stability. Here was my reply:

Some of the Biggest Truths I Learned...
I am me. It took me a long time, 36 years, to learn to H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E and to love and like me. That was lesson one. The second one was to accept every part of me. That took me 4 years. And the third was to realize what decisions I was making to keep myself in a victim mode. By embracing the fact that I am made in God's image and that he doesn't make mistakes...I have moved to loving me. And I have been spoiling me!!! : )
I keep the child in me alive by collecting African American Barbie dolls. I have every African American Bob Mackie there is! I am giving to others through my ministry, NAMI, facebook fan page, radio show and my personal friendships. Most importantly I have forgiven everyone, including myself, for my past and making my present a gift to me.
One thing I wish someone would have told me besides H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E. is you are made up of a body, spirit, and mind. All three have to be taken care of and taken into consideration when you are hit with any illness, problem or negative situation. Since human beings are comprised of a body, spirit, and mind, all three must be taken care of and taken into account when managing any kind of problem. I have learned that you must take care of your body with proper nutrition, exercise, rest and vitamin supplements. You must also work very closely with your medical provider to secure the best possible treatment. This includes educating yourself about available treatment methods and medications for your condition, and articulating any side effects you may experience to your doctor immediately so that he/she can make dosage adjustments as necessary.
Regarding your spirit, I have learned from experience that being spiritually grounded will help get you through the darkest days you will face. Know that you can achieve spiritual health by praying consistently, reading your scriptures and books on your faith, and by meditating to quiet your mind so that you can achieve spiritual balance. You also need to nurture your mind by reading positive affirmations, listening to uplifting music, and by only watching television shows that espouse and promote healthy ideas that can teach you new things and help you to expand your horizons. Finally, by helping others, you will also make yourself feel good as you are making a contribution to society and at the same time stimulating your mind. I consistently give of myself to others via my Taboo Talk Christian radio show each week, writing messages on my Facebook Fan page and volunteering. When you are right spiritually, on the correct medications for your brain/body, and are feeding your mind positive thoughts and affirmations, you can only be one thing: HEALTHY and HAPPY.

Excerpt from my book H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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Keep The Kid In You Alive by Lady Charmaine Day

8/22/2017

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Jesus said have faith like a child in order to enter the kingdom. Children believe wholeheartedly and 100%. No doubt. 100% trust. They believe you at your word and visualize your word. They have incredible imaginations. Sometimes adults find it hard to be creative or imagine like a child. They find it difficult to believe people at their word, to trust or to visualize what other's are promising. It's like they'd lost the gift of childhood. One of the gifts given to us when we accept Jesus Christ as Our Lord and Savior is creativity and imagination. Those are two talents planted into our spirit a fruit that awakens with our faith. How do you nurture these talents? Be like a child by keeping the kid in you alive.

To keep the kid in you alive, get back to the basics. Where you don't care about how it looks or who is looking or what is going to happen, just go for it!

Also,adopt an attitude of being open to the new and different. With childlike wonder, explore the new. Be open to new experiences, people and things.

Other things that you can do to keep the kid in you alive; allow yourself to be an open vessel willing to learn, feel and experience life. Be willing to fall, to make mistakes, not to know and be ambiguous. That's what kids do. They are uninhibited. They don't care how they look as they have fun. They just have fun. The greatest Earthly breakthroughs have come from people making millions of mistakes before they encountered their breakthrough. With you obtaining your greatest breakthroughs in mind, I encourage you to do activities to keep the kid in you alive so you can continue to have the strong child like faith it requires to move the mountains in your life in Jesus Christ name and inherit the kingdom of God. Jesus Christ said that children will gain the kingdom of God. If you practice staying young at heart you will allow yourself to see life through this perspective.
And after you have adopted the mindset of keeping the kid in you alive, how do you keep the kid in you alive on a daily basis? By doing things your inner child likes to do. Like taking time to smell the roses, or starting a collection of your favorite childhood toys. By being open to new and different things are ways to stay young at heart. Also by remembering all of the times that God has answered your prayers and have given you miracles in your life. This will increase your faith, imagination and trust of God and keep the vitality, imagination, and visualization of your inner child alive.
When you allow yourself to keep the kid in you alive,you'll be surprised how much more you will gain, experience and grow!! Choosing to have child like faith to believe and trust 100% that God has got you, will protect you, and has made provision for you means that you can expect to have a peaceful, joyful, happy, abundant life.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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