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God Is Good All The Time by Lady Charmaine Day

9/29/2017

Hello Beautiful!!!
God is good all the time!!!
Regardless of your circumstances or what you are going through, in every situation you can find the good that God is giving you.
How? How do you find God and his goodness in the midst of trials and tribulations?
First start by changing your thinking and vision so that you can see God's presence in your life. You can do this by looking at your situation. Things could always be a million times worse than your current state of affairs. God's mercy, grace and favor kept you from experiencing something far more horrible than what you are going through.
Second, when in the midst of your crisis, do you notice people are blessing you with kindness and compassion, that's God in action. God works through people to bless you and uplift you.
Third, draw closer to him by consistently praying to him and praising him for all the blessings that he has given you.
Lastly, adopt an attitude of constant gratitude for the things he has done in your life. I know personally from experience in my darkest days because of my changed thinking and vision, I have been able to look passed my circumstances and see God's hand on my life protecting me, taking me through the storm I had been facing and sending people at just the right time to help me. That's why I can say God is good all the time. You can do this too by choosing to see God at work in your life because he is right there caring for you and seeing you through. We serve an awesome God who is in control of this world and who cares for you. By implementing the few steps I suggested you will notice God's presence in your life. You'll be glad that you did! Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor,
Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit
http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.

Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
info@ladycharmaineday.com

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Baggage by Lady Charmaine Day

9/22/2017

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Hello Beautiful!!!
Baggage. You can’t be happy and filled with joy walking around carrying the baggage of your past. You have to forgive those people who have done you wrong. Why? By forgiving them you are cleansing your heart and making way for God to bless you. You forgive them and let go off the bitterness and rage and revenge in your heart. Put your trust in God that he saw what went down and that he will judge and justice will be served by God. Not one person who has ever done me wrong has gotten away with it. I let go and let God and in time God brought my enemies to justice. I forgave them all and let go. If not the memories, the bitterness, the rage would have consumed me and I would not have been able to function. You cannot be happy carrying around thoughts of revenge. And at the same time how can you ask God to forgive you for your sins, your evil thoughts when you are not forgiving people who did you wrong? Do you think you are better than God? You are not above God and it is hypercritical to ask for forgiveness and be holding grudges and anger in your heart so you have to let it go and let God. Also do you think whoever hurt you years ago or yesterday cares about you right now? No they don’t. They have moved on with their life and are happy. Meanwhile here you are carrying around negative energy and blocking your blessings. Stop the madness. And it takes energy to remember anything. It takes energy to recollect feelings, time and places. That’s energy you can be using to build up your walk with God. Energy you can use to make yourself a better person. Also so you can be free and at peace. Free like a butterfly.
So let go and let God.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit
http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.

Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
info@ladycharmaineday.com

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5W's by Lady Charmaine Day

9/20/2017

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Everything has a price. What is yours? Do you know for what price you can be bought or sold? How much does it cost to lose your soul? Sanity can be measured. It is the ease at which you are able to breathe and sleep at night. It is the amount of frown lines you have in your face, it is the words that you never say and are never spoken about you in love and tenderness. For nothing, you give everything you have to go after the 5ws. The who, what, when, where, and why of the world. And the 5ws are:

Who…Who do I know, Whose network do I belong to, Who am I (my title, my position), and Who am I with (dating or married to).

What… What you look like. What you have. What you own. What you are (I am Doctor Jones etc.).

When…When do I get the next thing. When did I accomplish what I have now. When I get “X” then I’ll be happy or satisfied (but upon getting x you never are) and your life is driven by what age you accomplish something.

Where…Where do I live. Where do I work. Where do I or my family accomplish our daily active living.

Why…Why do I get what I have (the world calls it the halo effect when you get what you do because of a certain reason that most people have a favorable bias towards).

Thinking that once you have it, it will come. The it being the happy ending, the happiness that you had wanted all your life, the feeling of satisfaction, the never ceasing smile. But upon getting it, because that is what you tied your sanity to, you are never satisfied. Because you see, all of those are things, idols, things that you worshipped versus God and God said not to worship any other god but him. And so you obtained these things for the wrong reasons. Who are you posing for? The world. The world isn’t feeding, financing or making love to you so why are you giving up your sanity for the right image? At the end of the day, when all of that are gone (all the "right image things" everything that you think can you happy), no one who was looking will come to save you, except one. God. God. The hand you let go of to pursue the right image, will be the only one extended to you to stand back up. And when you drop S from your chest for being your own savior and super being and picked up the J for Jesus, you will truly begin to live.

Today, we are in the middle of hard times. When hard times occur, it is survival of the fittest. Companies use “the times” as an excuse to clean house and do whatever they want to reform and to make a profit. And you, you are left to fend for yourself. To battle the corporate mind games of being in the rat race. To deal with the high cost of barely surviving. And if you are doing it in your own strength, just like you have done it all this time, how far do you think you are going to get?
WHO DO YOU THINK IS IN CONTROL? WAKE UP!!!
God is in control.
And he is not bothered by the sign of the times. Because for those who call his name he will hear them and give them his grace, love, favor and mercy. While plagues may come over other houses, they will pass yours by. Humble yourself and find God. And the way back is simply to ask for forgiveness and to seek his face. And to stand. Stand on scripture. Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me”. Stand on this word until you are the word and the word and you are one. Remember as you come and you go, ask God to order your footsteps. Pray for everything, your home, your job, your family, your friends, your happiness and for peace. Nothing good will be withheld from you, if you believe and have faith in God, not yourself. I can tell you, that serving God and not relying on yourself to get through life is easier. You will not get stressed by what you see because you know who has you. Having a relationship with God and tying your self-image to this one fact: You are a child of God, God has me, will give you a peace of mind and the confidence that you are safe and secure throughout life's trials and tribulations. That my fate is not determined by man but God gives me peace. A peace of mind that you can not buy. And I want that for you. Now is the time to make sure that your most valuable asset is your relationship with God and your most used resource is the Bible. Seek comfort in the fact that whatever you may face in this world, it will not overcome you because God will help keep you and protect you.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"
Please visit
http://www.ladycharmaineday.com
for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.

Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
info@ladycharmaineday.com

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Talent by Lady Charmaine Day

9/18/2017

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Hello Beautiful!!!
God gives us “talent” (capability to do things we may not have been able to do without divine intervention). For example, each of us is born with natural talents and gifts. Something that makes us special. Like maybe you can sew or speak or are good in math or draw. Everyone has one thing that they are good at. As kids we know what that thing is and either we develop it and use it or we don’t. So by the time we are adults we are subject matter experts (SME) in our talents. What happens if you are not a SME in your talent? What if you never developed it? You lose it. It goes away. All of sudden you’re not a star performer just less than average. Now when you are good, a SME at something and here’s the key, you use your talent in away to bring God honor and glory, God smiles on you and gives you more talent. All of sudden you find you have a second capability you didn’t have before. And you’re not average at it but good. This is what you can expect as a Child Of God. More talent. More capability to be productive and therefore happy. God wants you to be thoroughly happy and enjoying what you do. Always expanding your mind and doing what you can do. You never reach the “end” of life when you are living. You keep on living. So the goal shouldn’t be a happy ending but more happiness and after you get more happiness go get more and more. Never stop seeking happiness. Because you should be happy on a consistent basis. I had it all wrong until I was 37 that the goal was happy endings but that was a false thought that came to me because of fairy tales. Life isn’t a fairy tale with fake phony “endings”. But a journey with wonderful things to see along the way. You can make it incredible this journey known as life if you fully use all your talents because then God will bless you with more options and more things and people to see and you will have a great time with all levels of people. God wants a relationship with you where he sees and talks with you about everything he has given you in this life to work with. We all come out the gate 0-18 with stumbling blocks, obstacles, family drama, school drama, even low self esteem. But God gives us our talent so when we make it to adulthood and to our own conscious decision to be with him, we are ready to use our talents to bring him glory and honor to his name. How do you honor God with your talent? Tell all who can hear you the source of where your talent comes from. Use your talent in some form to help other Children Of God too. These are two ways God gets the glory. People think their talent is for their sole purpose to make them standout and acknowledged. NO. It is about God. For people to say God works through this person. Look at how God blessed this person with that talent. Or that’s just God coming from your own lips. This is how you honor God and is the best use of your talent.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit
http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
info@ladycharmaineday.com

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Faith By Lady Charmaine Day

9/15/2017

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Faith. It takes faith to have anything. Faith is believing in spite of what you see. Faith is not a feeling because your feelings can and will betray you. Faith is hope. Hope is wanting something that does not exist to come into existence and believing it will come to pass. Obstacles. There will be many obstacles in your way that seem insurmountable. But if you believe in God and don’t flinch you will be fine.

How do you not flinch? You keep on going back to the point of belief where you know in your heart God will not fail you. You look at something that he did in the past, a miracle and depend on that for today. God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. God will make sure you are delivered to your miracle on time in the best way possible. Sometimes the best way is not your way, but it’s God’s way and God’s way is always the best. God rewards those who are faithful to him with his blessings, grace, favor and mercy. You can and will have all of those things if you have at least a mustard seed of faith.

What is a mustard seed of faith? It is as small as this . on the paper. It is very tiny. You can have at least that much faith. Faith is the key to believing in God. None of us have seen Jesus or God or the Holy Spirit so we are already showing that we have faith because we believe in something invisible we can’t see. We take the Bible as the living word of truth. That takes faith. So you already demonstrate faith simply by calling yourself Christian and following the commandments of God. You will have all the things you desire if you continue to have a relationship with God and demonstrate this kind of faith.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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The Power Of Silent Protest by Lady Charmaine Day

9/13/2017

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For my entire childhood,teenage years,twenties and early thirties, I did not understand Martin Luther King Jr. I could not understand how he was able to so calmly, professionally and smoothly maintain a stance of non-violence in the direct light of violence against himself, the people following him and his family.It wasn't until I casually said to someone when I was angry the following statement did I realize what he was doing. I was working as the head of human resources in a very unprofessional environment. One of my co-workers who was pregnant was harassed by a couple of workers on the job. One of the people who stressed her out I walked up to and I said in a very calm voice "I feel sorry for you.I am going to pray for you. I am going to pray that the God I serve avenge me in this situation. I pray that you never feel a day a peace until you apologize to this woman sincerely and leave her alone. And I pray that you never forget this lesson and change your wicked ways." The woman just started to shake. She said Ms. Day, Ms. Day please stop. Please don't pray. Please don't pray. I walked away.
I went back to my office. I sat down. Then people came running into my office asking me what did I do to her. I said nothing. I said I would pray for her to change her wicked ways. They said the woman was admitted into the emergency room screaming and seizuring.
That made me think. I got really scared. Up until this point I never saw a direct correlation between silent protest for justice, and the power of prayer. I was humbled by it.
From that day forward I promised to watch my words.
And to be careful about my prayers, God listens.
I knew that God sees me, hears me and does take action when it comes to me.
I know he does that for me and he does that and more for you.
Today, I am more mature in my walk as a Christian. I wouldn't walk up to someone and tell them I am praying for them. I would just pray silently for God to intervene in the situation,take away my anger and for the best outcome to happen. And then I show up, without stress, worry or concern and let God handle the rest.

People have seen other people yell and scream at me and me not raise my voice. React. I hear them out. Then I patiently respond and remain professional. People ask me don't I feel weak? Don't I get angry? Don't I want to punch the person in the face? And I say to them, I am not in charge of this situation, God is. God has never failed me and he will avenge me in this situation. And you will see it. And sure as my legal maiden name is Charmaine Day justice comes to pass.

So if you find yourself in the midst of a situation where someone is attacking you, don't think that there isn't power in prayer. Your prayer is the most powerful weapon that you can evoke. Its power reaches beyond this situation and sometimes generations in terms of outcomes. You are not a victim but victorious.
On another note of silent protest, I am boycotting the NFL by not watching any football games or sports commentary on football because the NFL owners have not hired Colin Kaepernick because of his silent protest against police brutality and racism. I realized that right now I am witnessing a man who took a righteous stand be persecuted as a result. That's not right. I will continue to boycott until Colin Kaepernick is gainfully employed as a quarterback in the NFL.
I am praying for Colin's protest against police brutality and racism to bring changes in America.
Colin Kaepernick is our generations Muhammad Ali.

There is power in prayer.
There is power in silent protest.

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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Nothing Can Block Your Blessings by Lady Charmaine Day

9/8/2017

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To The Very Special Person Reading This: Hello Beautiful! Please know that nothing can block your blessings. What God has ordained for your life, no man can take away from you. Your blessings have a predetermined time, for a predetermined appointment to meet you. Sarah in the Bible laughed at the angels when they told Abraham she would be pregnant in her old age. All her life she wanted to have children and it didn't happen. How could it possibly happen when she was 90? But God promised Abraham a child by his wife, Sarah and God keeps his word. Is there something God promised you and you feel like it will never show up? Perhaps peace and prosperity are alluding you. A spouse or elevation on your job. Living out your passion in a new career. Do you think it will not happen? My friend I am here to tell you, God is faithful. What he has promised you will come to pass. Have patience. HAVE PEACE, BE STILL, KNOW THAT GOD IS GOD. God wants you to know that he sees you exactly where you are at and knows your heart. He is moving situations and people in your favor. He is working out your circumstances so that the blessing will come. And it will surely come on time, in such a way that you know his hand was in it. Sometimes we ask why not before? Why not on my timeframe? Perhaps you weren't ready before now. Or you wouldn't have given God the glory for the miracle he is performing. Maybe the wait got you in a mode of thankfulness and appreciation you would not have had before. Plain and simply, it wasn't time.But a delay doesn't mean a denial, just a
bigger delivery.So get ready for your blessing. In your wait sin not. Groan not. Be of good cheer. Prepare for your blessing. Get ready to receive for the designated time will be here as it should.Remember, God sees all and knows all. He knows your heart and will bless you. So be patient. You are special.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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God Is In Control by Lady Charmaine Day

9/1/2017

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May I have your attention please. Please, may I have your attention. This blog post is to remind you of your right and privileges as a child of God. God promised you peace of mind, love, joy, happiness, good health, prosperity, a more abundant life and a closer relationship with him through having his son Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. To my knowledge, there has not been a communication memo to you nor I in the last forty six years telling us that Jesus Christ quit on his job and that what God promised us is null and void. Correct? So please, stop giving room to worry, doubt, fear and anxiety about things that arise in your life that are contrary to God's word. So when lack of any shape form or fashion comes, tell it to go. When poverty wants to strike, tell it to go back where it came from, when depression and sickness comes rebuke it in the name of Jesus and tell it that everything must bow down to the name of Jesus and cease from its works.

You are not a victim in this life but a victor. Jesus came so that you could have victory and success in every area of your life. If you are suffering in some area of your life you need to ask yourself why am I settling for this when God has promised me something positive? Then quickly, run like you are on fire to God asking God to take care of this area and to implement his promise. Then stand. Don't be moved by what you see, hear, smell or feel. Don't be moved by your circumstance or by other people. Just stand and don't pick it back up. Have faith and believe in God for the victory in that area. And it will surely come.
God's promises can be found in Deuteronomy 28:1-13. There you will find that God promised to bless your home, your work, your family, your body. He promised to make you a leader, a lender, and prosperous. He promised to bless you in the present and in the future. He promised to go before you and bless your coming and going. He promised if an enemy comes at you in one direction that they will flee you in seven directions. And he promised so much more. Read it for yourself and you will get excited because in essence God has promised you a wonderful life. He wants you to be happy. He wants you to be prosperous and he wants you to be excited about getting up each day and praising his name because he is a great God.
So just like you haven't quit your job, know that Jesus hasn't quit his. God hasn't quit on you either. So keep living on purpose. Don't settle for nothing less than the best in every area of your life because that is what you deserve and you are special!!! Stay blessed!!!
Until next time,
take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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