Everything has a price. What is yours? Do you know for what price you can be bought or sold? How much does it cost to lose your soul? Sanity can be measured. It is the ease at which you are able to breathe and sleep at night. It is the amount of frown lines you have in your face, it is the words that you never say and are never spoken about you in love and tenderness. For nothing, you give everything you have to go after the 5ws. The who, what, when, where, and why of the world. And the 5ws are:
Who…Who do I know, Whose network do I belong to, Who am I (my title, my position), and Who am I with (dating or married to).
What… What you look like. What you have. What you own. What you are (I am Doctor Jones etc.).
When…When do I get the next thing. When did I accomplish what I have now. When I get “X” then I’ll be happy or satisfied (but upon getting x you never are) and your life is driven by what age you accomplish something.
Where…Where do I live. Where do I work. Where do I or my family accomplish our daily active living.
Why…Why do I get what I have (the world calls it the halo effect when you get what you do because of a certain reason that most people have a favorable bias towards).
Thinking that once you have it, it will come. The it being the happy ending, the happiness that you had wanted all your life, the feeling of satisfaction, the never ceasing smile. But upon getting it, because that is what you tied your sanity to, you are never satisfied. Because you see, all of those are things, idols, things that you worshipped versus god and god said not to worship any other god but him.
I have been there and done that. My price, what I worshipped and got for the wrong reasons: husband, six figure income, title, car, house, all for the “right image”. Who was I posing for? The world. The world wasn’t feeding me, financing me or f***ing me so why did I give up my sanity for the right image? At the end of the day, when all of that was gone (all the "right image things" everything that I thought would make me happy), no one who was looking came to save me, except one. God.
God. The hand I let go of to pursue the right image, was the only one extended to me to stand back up. And when I dropped the S from my chest for being my own savior and superwoman and picked up the J for jesus, I truly began to live. I was 34. For 34 years I was the dead walking. Being alive, happy, content, fulfilled, I can honestly say, I never knew that before I surrendered to god for relationship.
Today, we are in the middle of hard times. When hard times occur, it is survival of the fittest. Companies use “the times” as an excuse to clean house and do whatever they want to reform and to make a profit. And you, you are left to fend for yourself. To battle the corporate mind games of being in the rat race. To deal with the high cost of barely surviving. And if you are doing it in your own strength, just like you have done it all this time, how far do you think you are going to get? WHO DO YOU THINK IS IN CONTROL? WAKE UP!!! God is in control. And he is not bothered by the sign of the times. Because for those who call his name he will hear them and give them his grace, love, favor and mercy. While plagues may come over other houses, they will pass yours by. Humble yourself and find God.
And the way back is simply to ask for forgiveness and to seek his face.
And to stand. Stand on scripture. Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me”. Stand on this word until you are the word and the word and you are one.
Remember as you come and you go, ask God to order your footsteps. Pray for everything, your home, your job, your family, your friends, your happiness and for peace. Nothing good will be withheld from you, if you believe and have faith in God, not yourself. I can tell you, that serving God and not relying on myself to get through life is easier. I don't get stressed by what I see because I know he's got me. Having a relationship with God and tying my self-image to this one fact: I am a Child of God, God has me, gives me peace of mind and the confidence that I will be safe and secure throughout life's trials and tribulations. That my fate is not determined by man but God gives me peace. A peace of mind that you can not buy. And I want that for you. Now is the time to make sure that your most valuable asset is your relationship with God and your most used resource is the bible. Seek comfort in the fact that whatever you may face in this world, it will not overcome you because God will help keep you and protect you.
Remember, stay blessed.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
​www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Planning on publishing my 9th book next year
​Here's an excerpt:


Sexual Energy,
How to motivate the mic

God gives each and every one of us talents. The Bible talks about how Jacob robbed Esau of his talent. That was man to man. So it shows us that a talent can be stolen when it is being bestowed upon someone as a generational gift. How does someone steal your talent once you have it? Sexual energy. In school, we are taught not to have unprotected sex. You are taught that you can catch a sexually transmitted disease and have unwanted pregnancy. But spiritually what happens? You become connected to the person you are having sex with. And you will always be in the history of that person. Part of their DNA if fluids are exchange. And just in general you are sharing your talent with that person. Now most people just have a spiritual linkage. They don’t form a bond deeper than a mutual exchange of sexual energy. However some people when they lay with you do so to steal your talent. They steal your talent by capturing the essence of you at the time you have an orgasmic release. This happens when the person stops seeing you with their physical senses and opens their spirit to connect with yours. They use their intuitive perception to form a connection. They start noticing the rhythm of your heartbeat. The timing of your being that your maker has set you at. Once you know someone’s timing you know how they accomplish goals in their life.
How do you motivate the mic? First of all, what is the mic? If the world is a stage, the mic is any instrument you use to motivate an individual or people to do some action for you. Whether it is reacting to something you created or feeling something from what you have done, the mic is the way you transmute your desire to people. How do you motivate the mic than? How do you get it to do your command? You have to know the timing of the mic in question. You have to understand how to make the mic come alive in your hands the moment you touch it. You know how to breathe life into the mic by understanding the timing of the mic’s craft. You learn the timing of the mic one of three ways: naturally, studying about the craft, or stealing the talent of someone who knows how to motivate the mic.
Today, beware of who you lay with.
I often laugh to myself. People who have slept with me and thought they have used me, in essence I have used them. While they were gaining sexual bliss from me, my mind was thinking about rhythm and timing and motivation. What motivates this person? What makes this person tick? How can they make me feel anything? How do they walk? How do they talk? What kind of presence do they have in a crowd? How do they protect me? How do they make me feel when I am with them? How do they make other people feel? Is their a light around them? What does that light look like? How does that light look in the reflection of my eyes or someone else’s? What does beautiful look like to them? What is ugly? What makes them good looking? What takes away from their character? What is their secret? Like the bottom line:why do I want you? Why have you made me stop whatever I am doing along my journey to focus my attention on you? What is special about you?
All of this goes on in the back of my brain. Every person I sleep with a character in a play. The play called my life. The stage the world. The audience people in my life. The light public scrutiny. The mic my pen, or the radio, or tv or a magazine or the internet. But from day one I knew to record it, later it would be analyzed by others, this is bigger me.
Why?
Sexual energy.
How to motivate the mic.
Questioning everything, wondering, pondering, just being inquisitive. Wondering how to gain myself back from losing myself in my lover’s grasp was my initial reasoning for trying to figure out the key to sexual energy.
And then once I understood that I would gain something. Not only myself back, but talent, it blew my mind.
Once I understood the principle of sexual energy, plus timing, plus motivating the mic, plus the first rule of comedy which is “fuck it”, I truly could implement the biblical principle I had been standing on “For with God nothing shall be impossible”

Look back over the tapestry of your life. And do the analysis I have done. Analyze fully the people you have slept with like I have and you will recognize the hidden talent within your spirit. For they are eternally linked with yours.

You hear the saying that old couples look alike, sound alike, walk alike. Why? Over time, one has the captured the sexual energy or the essence of the other’s being. They know the person’s rhythm, their timing, what motivates them, how they will react in any situation and thus they gain that person’s talent.

This is how it works.
Food for thought:
Now that you know, from this point forward, will you so loosely sleep with any ole body and give yourself away, give your talent away?
Hmm, marinate on that and let me know.


#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Thank God you are alive and healthy!!!
Thank God for another Day to live!!!
I am praying for you!!!
Expect God's Favor Wherever You Go!!!
Here's a quick poem I wrote on what having God's favor means. See below:

God's Favor
By Lady Charmaine Day

God's favor, none can compare.
Some people say "Favor ain't fair!"
It's not
Most people don't have it, that's their lot.
When you have it, you are walking with the divine.
Everything is within reach, I can easily say it is mine.
And get what I want, God will never let me be denied.
Failure is not an option, success it's definite when I try.
To know you'll win from the start,
Gives you courage and strength in your heart.
Knowing you can, gives you the determination to win.
People wonder why Mona Lisa smiles, that's the look of favor's grin.
Sunshine, rainbows, only life's finer things is what I expect so I always sing a new song.
Heaven on Earth lays behind my gate. I praise God for his mercy and grace.
This wonderful Earthly state
God I Praise you for your favor
Knowing your face is what I savor.
God thank you for letting me win life's race.
The best reward is to come back home to Heaven and see your face.
Thank you God, for your favor.

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Walk knowing because you are a child of God and Jesus is your Lord and Savior that you have God's favor.
Expect God's favor wherever you go!
Watch what comes!
Take plenty of pictures of the amazing things that you will see and the places you will go because God made a way for you. Remember to thank God for it and watch, more will come. And after that, more, keep expecting God's favor and it will always come.
I pray that God blesses you with a good Day today and that your week ahead is filled with God's grace, mercy, favor, peace, good health, prosperity and rest in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Throwback Thursday
Meetup.com Sponsored Panel Discussion
September 26, 2019
Manhattan, New York
Meetup.com Headquarters

Fellow NAMI Ambassador
Taraji P. Henson said,
"Most people who suffer from mental illness suffer in silence, especially people of color. They don’t want to be labeled, further demonized, or rendered inadequate."
This is soooooo true!!!
The stigma surrounding mental illness is so strong that mental illness is one of society's last taboo topics.
To heal, survive and thrive I have been an NAMI Ambassador sharing my story of recovery and coping strategies. I have shared my story in psych wards, on radio, internet radio, sirius xm, hospitals, universities, colleges, schools, non-profits, and for profit companies with over 20,000 people throughout the United States.
On September 26th, Meetup.com held a phenomenal event in Manhattan at their headquarters for education and support for mental health and wellness. I was honored to be a part of their dynamic panel discussion called
State of Mind:
A Conversation on Mental Illness/Wellness. Please watch this insightful and informative panel discussion above.
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video. God bless your precious heart for your thoughtfulness and support.
What next?
Mental health is still a taboo topic. Please show your support of what I am doing by getting your copy of my books, and watching the videos and reading my blog posts that I am sharing with you.

Starting with this rare insight into my marriage. Please watch our video
Taboo Talk: Mental illness...a conversation between a married couple:
https://youtu.be/P95JEhGQP1s

Peace of mind is priceless. How do you get peace of mind? Here is my number one coping Strategy that helps me to have peace of mind and good mental health and wellness.
#1 Coping Strategy:
https://www.ladycharmaineday.com/…/1-coping-strategy-by-lad…

The second coping Strategy that I use you will find by reading my blog
#2 Coping Strategy:
https://www.ladycharmaineday.com/…/2-coping-strategy-by-lad…

If you live in New York City and would like more information, help and support, please visit:
NAMI NYC Metro
505 8th Avenue
Suite 1103
Manhattan, New York 10018
www.naminyc.org
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Please subscribe to my YouTube channel www.youtube.com/ladycharmaineday for positive uplifting one minute video messages from me to you!!

To fully know what I have experienced get your autographed copy of my books Size 7 1/2: Walk A Mile In My Shoes and the sequel H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E. available as a set in my store as a 2 book set for $35 (free shipping):
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You are welcome to join my Unlimited Help Online Ministry. Simply download my free gift, the Lady Charmaine Day app that allows you direct connection with me.

I pray that you are blessed by the information that I have shared in this message and that you have learned something that can help you along your spiritual journey in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!" Amen.

I encourage you to give yourself dreams and goals to achieve so that you can stay sane and positive in this world we live in. I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal week filled with God's grace,mercy,favor,peace,good health, prosperity and rest. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Be mindful of your thoughts. Whatever thoughts you focus your time and attention on most, will manifest itself in your life. Focus on positive things, and you will see positive things start to happen and manifest in your life. The life you are leading today is a direct result of the thoughts you were thinking in your past. Choose your future wisely, be mindful of your thoughts!

Well we made it.
We made it through the third quarter of 2019 praise God with God's blessings:
a roof over our heads, clothing on our back, food on our table, a source of income and good times with family and friends.
God has been so good to you and I.
Wherever you are, God is. He is always watching over you and protecting you. He loves you! So know that whatever you may face, you are not facing it alone, God is with you and is protecting you! He will make a way out of no way for you!!
Continue to praise him because your blessing is on it's way.

I pray that the rest of 2019 is your year! I pray that in this year, God blesses you with more favor and grace than ever before and that you experience more good health, joy, peace, happiness, love, prosperity and good times than ever before.
I also pray that this week brings you moments of joy and happiness, as well as times to exhale and appreciate the life God has blessed you with in the name of Jesus Christ.

Please take a minute to watch my video message from me to you.

Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
New Month. New Season. New Beginning.
Remember what I always say that a delay is not a denial but a greater delivery!!!
Have you been waiting for the right time to start implementing your plans and goals?
Today begins a new month, new season, and represents a new beginning. It's no better time than the present to implement your plans and goals that will move you forward to the next level.
Remember that you are the temple of God. You are God's representative on this planet. Be the best you possible. From this point forward eat healthy, nutritious food and drinks. Take care of yourself as your Thank you to God for the gift of life.
You are responsible for your happiness and good health. Choose to be Happy and healthy. Do the things you know will make you happy and eat only good food and drink. Choose to be happy,healthy and the best you possible.
I pray that this month God blesses you with the desires of your heart and blesses you in all your endeavors with success and his favor in the name of Jesus Christ according to Luke 1:37"for with God nothing shall be impossible!!!"
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful?
Here's a question for you: If not now, when? When will you change to become the precious man or woman of God that God created you to be? When? When will you start living on purpose, taking the best care of yourself and living out your passion, when? When will you stop making excuses and start doing what ever it is you say you need to do? When. Now, my sister or brother, now is the time. All the power of God is focused in the here and now and there is no better time than the present to change. You have the power within you through the Holy Spirit to be the best you possible!!!
Don't waste another moment doing it the wrong way. From this point forward make a conscious decision to live on purpose and to be your best self possible by eating healthy, exercising and drinking plenty of water.

You are the temple of God and God's representation on this planet. You are God's best. Love and appreciate you because we only have one you!!!
Sending you love and appreciation from my side of the world!!!
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com​

Hello Beautiful!!!
​Roosevelt Junior Senior High School Class of 1989:
President
Homecoming Queen
Yearbook Editor
National Honor Society
Future Business Leaders Of America (FBLA)
Public Announcer
#3 in class

In the midst of darkness and chaos, you can choose how you will live and respond to your circumstances. No matter what I went through, I kept my head in the books and I made dreams and goals for myself to keep my mind positive from a very young age.
Thank you so much for watching this video were I share my brief testimony of life of recovery and wellness from Bipolar Disorder. July is National Minority Mental Health Awareness Month. Fellow NAMI Ambassador Taraji P. Henson said, "Most people who suffer from mental illness suffer in silence, especially people of color. They don’t want to be labeled, further demonized, or rendered inadequate."
This is soooooo true!!!
The stigma surrounding mental illness is so strong that mental illness is one of society's last taboo topic.
To heal, survive and thrive I have been an NAMI Ambassador sharing my story of recovery and coping strategies for the last 11 years through NAMI NYC Metro's In Our Own Voice Program. I have shared my story in psych wards, on radio, internet radio, sirius xm, hospitals, universities, colleges, schools, non-profits, and for profit companies with over 20,000 people throughout the United States
On July 13th, NAMI NYC Metro held a phenomenal event in Harlem for education and support for the community and specifically people of color. I was honored to be a presenter at the conference and share my story that you just watched.
What next?
Please subscribe to my YouTube channel www.youtube.com/ladycharmaineday for positive uplifting one minute video messages from me to you!!
To fully know what I have experienced get your copy of my books Size 7 1/2: Walk A Mile In My Shoes and the sequel H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E. available in the store at www.ladycharmaineday.com.
Visit NAMI NYC Metro for more information on mental health www.naminycmetro.org
and
let's stay connected!!!
You are welcome to join my Unlimited Help Online Ministry. Simply download my free gift, my cell phone app that allows you direct connection with me.
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I encourage you to give yourself dreams and goals to achieve so that you can stay sane and positive in this world we live in. I pray that you are having a good Day and that God blesses you with a phenomenal week filled with God's grace,mercy,favor,peace,good health, prosperity and rest. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Thursday's Thoughts:
When you speak to others you sow seeds into their lives. You don't know what will grow and bear fruit. That's not your job, you job is to sow seeds.
Today I will be doing a NAMI NYC Metro In Our Own Voice presentation at New York University's Alpha Phi Omega.
Below here I am thinking about the seeds I have sown over the last eleven years for reducing the stigma of mental illness, and showing hope for recovery and success after being diagnosed with a mental illness.
Doing presentations for NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness, I love doing this volunteer work. It is near and dear to my heart because I am a person who has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder who is in recovery. To go out to different places telling my story as part of NAMI's In Our Own Voice Program, feels my heart with joy. I always say if I can reach one person then it's a job well done. I know at the end of a presentation, I feel that I have reached more than one person from the response of the audience and the people who come up to speak to me. To receive letters saying that I encouraged somebody just makes me want to do more and more presentations. I encourage you to find a charity that you are interested in and volunteer so that you can feel what I feel.
Volunteer with a school, church, charity, organization or hospital to help others. By volunteering you are giving back to your community and to the world by making things better. Volunteers often help others deal with problems they have conquered and/ or recovered from. Volunteering will allow you to support causes that you believe in and are passionate about. Volunteering will help you bring hope to others. Volunteering is one situation where you are giving but also receiving as well. When you help others through volunteering, it helps you feel empowered and good. Therefore you receive just as much as you give. Volunteering is a blessing and something I highly recommend.
You'll be glad that you did.
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Hello Beautifil!!!
You have to trust in your heart mind body and soul that God just will make a way out of no way for you. Regardless of your circumstances, at all times, God is in control. Stop for a minute and let that marinate in your mind. God your Heavenly Father is in control and he has you in the palm of his hands. At all times he is caring and loving you and working things out for your higher good so relax. He is opening doors that are closed to others for you. He is giving you favor with those in positions of power, he is blessing your home and children, basically he is taking care of all your needs and wants. Psalms 23:1 says the Lord is my shepherd I shall not want. What this means is that all your needs are taking care of and your wants too if Jesus Christ is your Lord and shepherd. So you can rest and breathe easier knowing God is making ways for you when you can’t see away. That is why he is God. He can make the supernatural occur. And basically that’s what he wants to do. He wants for you to praise him for delivering you out of your circumstances. He wants you to come to him and thank him for what he has done. So continue to believe in God for deliverance to a highest level in every area of your life and for a deliverance from any problem that you may be facing. And when you seek his face, ask him once for help and just praise him talk to him about what else is going on in your life. Listen for what the Holy Spirit wants you to know. Read your Bible for divine revelation and you will be enlightened. God will bless you. Continue to seek God’s face. Never stop believing and having hope that God will make a way out of no way because he will. He will deliver you!!!
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Hello Beautiful!!!
Jesus told his disciples: “There was a rich man whose manager was accused of wasting his possessions. So he called him in and asked him, ‘What is this I hear about you? Give an account of your management, because you cannot be manager any longer.’ “The manager said to himself, ‘What shall I do now? My master is taking away my job. I’m not strong enough to dig, and I’m ashamed to beg— I know what I’ll do so that, when I lose my job here, people will welcome me into their houses.’ “So he called in each one of his master’s debtors. He asked the first, ‘How much do you owe my master?’ “ ‘Nine hundred gallons of olive oil,’ he replied. “The manager told him, ‘Take your bill, sit down quickly, and make it four hundred and fifty.’ “Then he asked the second, ‘And how much do you owe?’ “ ‘A thousand bushels of wheat,’ he replied. “He told him, ‘Take your bill and make it eight hundred.’ “The master commended the dishonest manager because he had acted shrewdly. For the people of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their own kind than are the people of the light. I tell you, use worldly wealth to gain friends for yourselves, so that when it is gone, you will be welcomed into eternal dwellings. “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches? And if you have not been trustworthy with someone else’s property, who will give you property of your own? “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.”
Luke 16:1‭-‬13 NIV

So be shrewd
What does shrewd mean?
Having or showing sharp powers of judgment; astute. For example:
"she was shrewd enough to guess the motive behind his gesture"
synonyms: astute, sharp-witted, sharp, acute, intelligent, clever, alert, canny, media-savvy, perceptive, perspicacious, observant, discriminating, sagacious, sage, wise, far-seeing, far-sighted;

Heavenly Father,thank you for watching over and providing for the special person reading this message.Father please continue to bless them with more love,joy,peace,happiness, good health and prosperity. Please bless them with more of your favor,mercy and grace. Father help them to be shrewd in their affairs. Father thank you in advance for answering this short prayer. In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen!

Until next time,take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry www.ladycharmaineday.com
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March 4th is the only day of the year that is a command.
March fourth.
In all that you do, do your very best.
Why?
Your talents,skills, and abilities are gifts from God. What you do with those gifts should be your gift back to God, your thank you for all that he has given to you. Your acknowledgment that he is the giver of all that you have and will accomplish. When you serve others as if you are serving God himself, it puts you on your ps and qs to do your best and that's what God calls you to do, to do your best for others, to be of service to others. When Jesus came, he said in Matthew 23:11 "but he that is greatest among you shall be your servant." And he also said in Mark 9:35"...if any man desire to be first,the same shall be last of all and servant of all." Jesus himself came according to Matthew 20:28"...not to be ministered unto, but to minister,and to give his life as a ransom for many." You and I should desire to follow the beautiful example Jesus has set for us to be of service to others. So give, give of your time, talents, skills and abilities to help uplift and empower others. I encourage you to examine your life to see what are you doing to help others and to recognize when you do give, are you giving your very best or half-heartedly? I implore you not to sleep on the job, and to give your best every time you set out to give because God works through people and he uses you and I to help others. As a result of God working through people,you and I become ambassadors for God in our every day lives. Are you the best ambassador possible for God? Are you a good or poor reflection of God working through you? How you act towards others and conduct your every day affairs determines the answer to that question, so in all that you do, do your very best! You'll be glad that you did!
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Hello Beautiful!!!
Thank God It's Friday!!!
"Don't confuse a season with a lifetime. All trials have a expiration date!!!"
2019 is your year!!!
Expect God's favor and blessings to proceed before you wherever you go and that you will experience God's unconditional love, peace and rest in a more personal way this year.
Quality Time. It is so important to spend quality time with the people that you love. Time to steal away, catch up, reconnect and BOND.
I highly recommend that you take time to spend QUALITY TIME with the people who YOU LOVE!!!
ASAP!!!
Good mental health is priceless!!! If you are not experiencing good mental health, than your life is not working right. Good mental health is paramount to living a happy, healthy life. On my radio show, Taboo Talk, I focused on how to get and keep good mental health with subject matter expert on mental health,Matthew Shapiro who shared with the listening audience his 21 Pearls Of Wisdom For Good Mental Health aka Coping.The show website link is: http://tobtr.com/s/8116691


For those who are looking for love.
Don't forget, subject matter expert in Love & Romance, the best seller Author Shamara Ray spent an hour giving out 21 Pearls of Wisdom for Love & Romance on Taboo Talk Radio Show at http://tobtr.com/s/8116685
So please, help me, help you by listening to either one of these GREAT SHOWS this weekend!!!
And when you are finished listening to Taboo Talk, please take a few moments to visit my website www.ladycharmaineday.com to learn more about this Ministry and how you can help ensure it's continued existence by making a donation, product purchase or service purchase. Thank you.
I pray that you are having a good Day and that you have a phenomenal weekend filled with blessings and Beautiful memories.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
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Jesus Christ is infinite... infinite. Man's spirit is infinite, the breathe of God. For you to equal Christ your spirit man must always be at the forefront of your life. To be in God's will you must equal Christ. How can you truly believe in Jesus? How can you ever equal Christ? By following a few of the C's...
Here are a few of the C's:

Consistent:
Be consistent in the character God has created me to be with evidence of the spirit in my life.

Constantly:
Constantly searching to improve and build a better relationship with God.

Creating:
Creating a reality based on truth.

Co-labor:
Co-laborer in God's work for my life. Changing what's not right.

Cross:
Cross of SIM(Self Image and Mind management) that says Jesus was the ultimate sacrifice so that I can have a relationship with him and my father Jehovah. I no longer have to walk in darkness but light, perceptions/lies versus reality, false expectations versus God's promises for an abundant prosperous life in all areas. My cross is to drop the S of superwoman or superman and pick up the J for Jesus knowing he's got me and will help me conquer through the holy spirit the sin, family and friend drama, perceptions, lies, expectations, and stay grounded with the reality that God's in control I'm not. Let Go... Let God.

Cause:
Fighting the good fight. It can be hard to H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E. if I do it in my own strength. I must continually fight to remember to Let Go and Let God and stand on Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Jesus who strengthens me."

Christian:
Be true to form as according to I Corinthians 13.

Contagious:
Contagiously touching others with the gifts of love and hope Jesus gives.

Communication:
Communication by dynamically presenting Christ in every form of language.

Confession:
Confession daily of sins, shortcomings, need for help and repentance

Checking:
Checking always to see if I am within God's will.

Course:
Staying the course God set for me, even if the going gets rough.

Content:
Content wherever I am in any given point of time because I know God has me and is supplying my daily needs.

Confident:
Confident in who I am, what I am, what I want and more specifically whose I am.

Creator/creature:
Creator/creature of only good habits. Practice makes permanent. Goodness, love and the gift of the spirit are thoughts that can become habits.

Choice:
I choose my response, reaction and words to every situation carefully.

Carefully:
Carefully I think before I speak. More importantly I pray.

Ceaselessly:
I pray once on a topic, update if necessary, but I praise God without ceasing, without thought for self.

Center:
My whole life revolves around God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit.
If you follow these C's you will be more like Jesus Christ. You'll be glad that you did. Stay blessed! Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
#LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Excerpt from Lady Charmaine Day's self-help book H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E.

Hello Beautiful!!!
There is only one you.
You are unique.
Made specifically by God in your mothers womb (Psalms 139).
You are a gift from God.
The first gift God gave you was you!
How are you treating yourself?
Are you maintaining your frame?
Are you eating healthy and exercising?
Are you practicing self-care?
Self-care is loving and liking yourself mind, body, and spirit. Self-care is the maintenance, and enhancement of the temple of God, your body.
Take time each day to practice self-care as your thank you to God for your life by exercising and eating healthy.
I pray that you are having a good day and that the rest of your week is filled with good health and happiness.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special.
Sincerely,
LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
​www.ladycharmaineday.com