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#2 Coping Strategy: Forgive All and Let Go and Let God by Lady Charmaine Day

5/11/2018

How many times do you forgive someone? Especially after they have hurt you or let you down? How many times has God forgiven you? It is easy to say but hard to do. Forgive. Yet it is the single most important lesson we have to master as humans.
Hurt is passed on. Hurt people hurt people. You need to mourn things in order to move on. We tend to bury our pain versus dealing with it. We tend to give, be strong for everyone and afraid to show our weaknesses to people. Giving and doing for everyone else sometimes is a mask we put on. Not facing your own pain will make you self medicate. Putting the mask on takes energy. The mask can function even when you are in pain. The key to healing. Admit you are in pain. Face what has hurt you. Forgive the person and yourself for your role in it. Then choose to move pass it. Ask God to heal your body, mind and spirit from the trauma you have suffered. Accept his healing. Accept your forgiveness. And begin to build a new life. One that is not focused on the pain you have bared but one focused on the happy life you want to live and what that looks like for you.
By practicing forgiveness you are choosing to be healthy and happy.
Because note to self, the person(s) that hurt you is not thinking about you and what they did to you. They have moved on.
So let go and let God. Choose to forgive and choose to be healthy, and happy.
How do you do it? How do you be the bigger person? How do you turn the other cheek? In your own strength, it can be hard, but if you ask God to help you and you BELIEVE that God has helped you to forgive others, it becomes easy to pick up the phone and speak first. Or to be there for that person even though in the past they have hurt you. When asked how many times to forgive someone, Jesus said 77x7. Huge number. Is there someone in your life you need to forgive? Don't let another moment go by. Forgive them. Pray to God and forgive them. And move on.
Because when you forgive and truly let go and let God you will experience peace of mind that surpasses all understanding.

LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

#1 Coping Strategy: Love and Like Yourself & Practice self-care and self-love by Lady Charmaine Day

5/7/2018

In recognition of Mental Health Awareness month, I am dedicating this blog to my #1 Coping Strategy for good mental health and recovery: Loving and liking yourself. Practice self-care and self-love.

Excerpt from Lady Day's Pearls of Wisdom

You may wonder, why was I born? What am I to do with the life I have been given. When Jesus Christ was on this Earth, he answered these questions when he was asked what is the most important commandment that we should follow.

According to Mark 12:29-31,The most important one, answered Jesus, is this: Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.The second is this: Love your neighbor as yourself.There is no commandment greater than these.

So first, we should love God with all are heart, soul, mind and strength and second we should love our neighbor as we love ourselves.

I want to focus the rest of this formula on the importance of loving yourself. Jesus commanded us to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. But you can not love anyone if you do not first love yourself. The question for today is do you love yourself and are you taking care of yourself in the best manner possible?

I want to begin by telling you that you are special and divinely made. You were created by God. And that YOU ARE LOVABLE and GOD LOVES YOU! How do I know this? I know this because of what it says in Psalms 139:13-16. According to Psalms 139:13-16For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mothers womb.I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.

If God loving put you together, you know that you are not a mistake, you were made on purpose. God created you so that your body could be the temple of God.You are special. Special enough to be formed by God himself. Therefore you are lovable and God loves you.

Your body is the temple of God. Did you know your body is the temple of God? According to I Corinthians 6:19-20: Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.

Your body is the first gift God gave you. How are you treating your body? Are you honoring and taking care of it like the precious gift God has given you? Are you giving your body the proper nutrients, exercise and rest it requires? Are you taking care of your body the best way possible? Church. We treat the physical building of church how we should treat our bodies. We respect, honor and clean our churches to make sure it is an excellent representation of God when in fact our bodies are the temple of God. You would never think to fill up a church with junk and debris yet we constantly put junk and garbage in our bodies! As Romans 12:1 says "Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of Gods mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship." I urge you today to begin to honor your body, the temple of God, by treating it right. By right I mean eating good food (e.g. vegetables, fruit and lean cuts of meat) and by taking the time to exercise your body as well as dress appropriately. While here on Earth, you represent God and are ambassador of God. I encourage you to be the best representation of God on the planet!!
Remember to treat your temple like what it is, a temple. Stop abusing your body! Treat the gift of life with reverence and respect. Honoring God by taking care of the precious gift of life he has given you. From this point forward, make it a point to eat healthy, exercise and be the best representation of God on the planet. You will be glad that you did.

All of this is a form of worshiping God and taking the time to love and like yourself.

Besides eating healthy, and exercising, take the time to pick something about yourself that you like. It can be something small, but whatever it is, its yours. Love it. Loving it means taking care of it and nurturing it. And after you done that, pick something else about you and so on until you have done your whole body. Remember at all times you are special. Be gentle with yourself!

I remember when I started the process of loving and liking me. The only thing that I could find about myself that I truly liked were my feet. So what did I do? I got some Victoria Secret Lotion Pear Glace. I would loving lotion my feet everyday. Then eventually my mother bought me a gold toe ring for one foot and I bought myself a gold toe ring for the other. My feet felt loved. I felt loved. Then I picked something else about myself I liked. My hands. I started to get manicures, and to keep my hands moisturized. My hands felt loved. I felt loved. I felt myself loving and liking me. Then I said to myself, this feels good. Let me do this to my whole body. And that's how I learned to love and like me. What works for you may be different. Maybe it its your eyes, or hair, your pretty smile, or ears. Whatever it is, start some where.

Just know this. Regardless of the lies you were told growing up or even are hearing now, you are very special and deserve to love and like yourself. You should be having a love affair with yourself because if no one else on the planet is showing you love, you are showing yourself love. In the bible it tells you tell to love your neighbor as you love yourself. Most people focus on the love thy neighbor part. The key to the scripture is
love thyself. You can't give love if you don't know love. You can only give like. And there is a difference between liking and loving. Liking makes you loyal to something or someone and you are using your brain to process these emotions. Loving makes you feel with your heart, mind, body and spirit. It is unconditional, it goes the extra mile and takes you into the type of love that God feels for you.

Jesus asked us to do one thing because he wanted us to feel what he felt for us. Jesus also loved himself. How do I know? In order to love us so well and unconditionally give of himself, he had to first love himself unconditionally. He could only give to us what he was able to give to himself. Do you want to see your life improve, relationships be better and you be happier? Make sure you are loving all of yourself as best you can. At the bottom of this blog I have included a self-inventory. This self-inventory is designed for you to reflect on the positive attributes that you have so that you can start the process of loving yourself, to think about your future and the legacy you want to leave behind.

Self-Inventory

1. List Three Physical Attributes that you like about yourself.

2. List two personality traits that you are happy you have.

3. List three skills, talents or gifts that you have.

4. If you had a t-shirt that described you, what would it say?

5. If you had the choice of doing one particular thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?

6. Close your eyes for a few moments and visualize something that would make you very happy at this time in your life, please write it down.

7.What is the one thing you really like about the person you call your best friend?

8. Do you possess the same quality that you listed in #7?
9. If you could instantly change one thing about yourself, what would it be and why?

10. What is the one thing people say to you, about how you impact them most frequently and do you agree or disagree? Why

11. What would you like people to remember most about you when it is all said and done? What is the legacy you want to leave behind?

From this formula, one legacy I hope you leave behind is that you did what Jesus Christ asked you to do: that you Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.And second Love your neighbor as yourself.

This was an excerpt from my book Lady Day's Pearls of Wisdom available on Amazon and Barnes and Noble. .

Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

How To Heal From A Divorce or A Relationship Breakup by Lady Charmaine Day

4/30/2018

Healing From Divorce or a relationship breakup: One of the most sacred things a man and woman can do is to make a vow to God to spend the rest of their lives together. Usually this is done in front of family and friends and those same people over time come to see the couple as one unit. Divorce is one of the most traumatic experiences you can go through and it is a process that one must be healed from. When you are in a long term relationship and that relationship ends, the same healing must also take place. In order to heal from a divorce or breakup, you must first realize that you are not a failure. Just because the relationship did not work out this does not mean you failed at something or are incapable of sustaining a lasting relationship. No, it simply means that one of you had hardening of heart and that the person no longer felt that they could uphold their commitment to you or to God. When the person leaves and you are in the process of going for a divorce or breaking up with you,you will notice that people will treat you differently. If you had a lot of couple friends, those friends may pull away and you may also witness people in your neighborhood treating you differently because you are now a divorced or single person. So you may feel a sense of isolation. This is a typical situation many divorce and single people find themselves in. When this happens, don’t allow yourself to be isolated. Reach out to friends and family. Join volunteer groups and go out to social activities to be around people. In addition change your home environment. Whether you are remaining in the home that you shared with your ex-spouse or partner or are moving to a new location, make sure that your home reflects what makes you happy and gives you a feeling of having your very own heaven on earth. Paint, decorate, splurge for new comforters and linens, throw out things that are painful and remind you of your past and keep those things that bring you joy. And lastly, this is the time to begin a love affair with yourself. Yes, a love affair, where you discover new things about yourself to love and like. You explore new heights your body can take you physically by exercising, doing physical activity like walking or bicycling or bowling and you discover new ways your mind can explore and be creative. This is the time to let the artistic side of you out. Paint, draw, take pictures, write poems, write a book, reflect but use your mind and body to take yourself to a new level. Now that you are single what you need to do is always be able to keep yourself occupied and happy. Walk with your camera, journal, pen, and business cards. Be ready to meet new people and to reflect, create and relate to others and you will be very successful during this transition time. And lastly but most importantly, taking care of your spiritual life is of upmost importance. Make sure you are taking time to pray and to read your Bible. Often times, people feel like they let God down by not being married or in a relationship. No, God doesn’t want you to be in a relationship where you are not experiencing love and are being abused. No where does it say that you are signing up for a life of misery and abuse. So go to your heavenly father in prayer and praise that he allowed you to be removed from an unhealthy situation and he is giving you a new life where you will be blessed with more love, joy, happiness, peace and prosperity. Make sure you make quality time each day with Jesus and your heavenly father, the holy spirit and the Bible and you will reclaim a peace that surpasses all understanding.

Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Time To Look At Yourself by Lady Charmaine Day

4/14/2018

There comes a time when you have to look at yourself, honestly. We can blame our situation, our circumstances and everyone else for what is not going right in our lives but we have to take time out to see what is our part in our own mess. Because memo to self, it is your mess. You have to live within your own situation and handle the reality of your own world. No one else.
Did you ever realize that no one inherently gets happy when you do? If you make a million dollars today, that’s your victory, no one elses. Just like your decision to get up and wash up is your decision and everything you do from that point forward, so is your happiness.
You are responsible for the decisions you make.
You can ask other people for their opinions, validation, praise, or two cents, but at the end of the day, you have to live with what you decide.
Know what is in your best interest.
Do things to build yourself up versus tear yourself down.
Stop making poor decisions out of fear.
Do you realize that you can spend a lifetime inviting in the wrong people into your life and doing all the right things to make other people happy simply to belong, fit in, and please other people?
The time for people pleasing, and self-abuse is over.
It is time for you to live your life to its fullest.
Your circle is already complete whether or not you have another person in the room with you.
You have with you at all times the presence of the Holy Spirit and God and Jesus Christ with you by calling on them in prayer.
You are not alone.
So stop inviting people into your world to fill up space and to stop feeling lonely.
Analyze your circle and see if you have people in your life who genuinely care about you and are building you up.
If you have people in your life who are constantly tearing you down, wearing out your self-esteem and never seem to be happy for you, time to have a friendship divorce. Pack their bags and tell them to go. Party over.
Life is too short for you to be surrounded by negative, dead people.
Instead, invest the time that you were giving to those people to yourself and your prayer life with God. Become your number one fan, friend, and confident. You are a good person and deserve only good things. Settle for nothing less in this year.
Stay blessed!
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Stay In Your Lane by Lady Charmaine Day

2/22/2018

Peeping in through the portals of social media like Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, you can get distracted from your own course. The world has morphed into one where everyone is worrying about the Jones and their progress. I like the saying "Stay in Your Lane." It is short,sweet and to the point that you and I need to adhere to. Why? You can't be focused on your purpose, destiny and dreams if you are busy taking detours into other peoples lanes, their lot in life. No, if you stay your course and do what it takes to make your dreams come true,then you are truly staying in your lane. Focus on what you need to do in order to move to the next level, stay in your lane. One of the ten commandments is even about staying in your lane, "though shall not covet your neighbor's X" and plug in whatever is applicable to you. Don't covet what Sally or Johnny is having going on for themselves. Be happy for their lot in life and more importantly thank God for what you have. Stay in your lane. Be about your business and your Father's business. The course he has you to run. When your focus and energy is directed to where you need to go, you will notice that the time it takes you to get from A to B is quicker. Time. TIme is precious and tomorrow is not guaranteed. Don't waste time on time busters and distracters from your dream. Plot your course, create a plan, and work that plan so that you can make the necessary changes to make your goals manifest. Run your race. Stay in your lane!

Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Don't You Know Your Grown Folk by Lady Charmaine Day

2/8/2018

Excerpt From My Book
H.E.E.D. S.I.M.P.L.E.

Truth # 105

Did you know you are a grown folk? There comes a time when you realize you are a “grown folk.” What is that? Someone who is an adult, responsible for your own life, for your own actions, for your circumstances, and the situations you find yourself in. As a grown folk, you can’t blame your problems on society, your community or your parental upbringing. You have had enough time on the planet to have put two and two together for yourself now and make decisions on your own merit. As a grown folk, no one wants to hear excuses from you. No one wants to hear why you don’t recognize for yourself that you are grown. So I am writing this to say wake up! Regardless of what state you find yourself in, sane or insane, people hold you accountable for your decisions and actions. And that’s just it. You don’t get a break. Whether you are sick or well, happy or sad, broke or well off, you are a grown folk. Stop making the same decisions that lead to no where. Stop doing things the same way you have always done them that get you the same tired unhappy results. Stop abusing your body, the temple of God. Stop being late. Stop lying to yourself and others about your reality. WAKE UP! Wake up and take responsibility for yourself. Be clean, disciplined and orderly. Take care of the gifts, talents and body that God gave you before you lose what you have because you see, it is biblical principle, you will lose it if you don’t use it. Start appreciating the fact that right, wrong or indifferent, you are the sum total of ALL the choices and decisions you have made from birth to now. The choices that YOU made. Not anyone else. And since you are the sum total of all those decisions, you get to decide where you are going next. So take some time out today. Get a pen and paper and map out the next five years. I want you to make some bodacious goals and claims for your life. Dream a big and wonderful life. Stretch yourself so that you give yourself something to look forward to. Design a goal for every area of your life. And then tomorrow, get on the path to obtaining what you have mapped out for you. Now you are living with focus, not merely existing. And you are designing a wonderful time and space for you. Enjoy the ride fellow grown folk. The best time of your life is yet to come!

By Lady Charmaine Day

Author of the motivation and inspirational book called H.E.E.D S.I.M.P.L.E. available for purchase at www.ladycharmaineday.com, www.barnesandnoble.com, and www.amazon.com

TGIF!!! Thank God It's Friday by Lady Charmaine Day

1/29/2018

Hello Beautiful!!!
Thank God It's Friday!!!!
God works through people...
and he definitely WORKS THROUGH YOU!!!
BE THE BLESSING THAT YOU WANT OTHERS TO BE FOR YOU!!!
PERIOD!!!
Show up!!!
Do the work!!!
Don't complain!!!
Praise people!!!
Thank people!!!
Be courteous!!!
Be kind!!!
Be nice!!!
Be a good person!!!
It will ALWAYS BE APPRECIATED BY GOD!!!
He sees all and see you in everything that you do!!
So ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST!!!
You are blessed and highly favored!!!
Don't give up five minutes before your blessings!!!
God is in control!!!
Whatever you prayed to God for, he heard you and answered your prayers.
Remember what I always say, "A delay is not a denial but a greater delivery!"
Continue to have faith. Believe.
Your blessings have a designated time to meet you.
You are blessed and highly favored!!!
I pray that you are having a good day and that you have a phenomenal weekend!!!
Please take two minutes to watch my TGIF video
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help Online Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Tuesday Thoughts:Like People's Behavior, A Leopard Doesn't Change It's Spots by Lady Charmaine Day

1/19/2018

Hello Beautiful!!!
Tuesdays set aside time
to focus on your thoughts.
When it comes to thoughts about people's behavior, recognize that people's behavior is like a leopard's spots.
A leopard doesn't change its spots. It remains what it is consistently. How does that apply to you and me as a child of God? Sometimes we think that over time or because of circumstances, people will change, or that because we forgive them and try to work with them, they will be a better person, that does not happen. People may be able to trick you and act differently for a while, but they cannot keep up their fake phony ways for long. Like the setting of the sun and the rising of the moon, you can count on the fact that their ugly, nasty ways will rear itself again. I give most people 90 days to see if their behavior will stay consistent. And believe me, it does not. I have seen people have near death experiences turn around and be the same nasty, mean person they were before the incident. Nothing changed, even though they almost lost their life. So my friend, do not be fooled and give the devil an inch of your life by letting fake phony people in your inner circle. Be strong enough to keep them out of your life. One of my best friends told me that "A true friend is worth their weight in gold" It's true, they are priceless. And a fake phony friend can cost you your life, peace of mind and salvation if you let them. So be discernful!!!

I pray that you are having a good day and that you have a phenomenal week ahead filled with God's grace, mercy, and favor.
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
LadyCharmaineDay
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Food For Thought on Implementing a Healthy Lifestyle by Lady Charmaine Day

11/4/2017

The greatest battle you will have to conquer is not the weight but your own mind. You have to renew your thinking so that you are only doing the right things for your life. Every day. You have to train your mind to focus on doing only the right things for you and implementing the behaviors for a healthy lifestyle. Eating healthy, good foods and exercising is not something you will be doing for a short period of time and then stopping. No. It is something you have to do everyday. Like eating or brushing your teeth. You couldn't imagine a day when you didn't eat or brush your teeth, right? So eating healthy and exercising is something that must become a part of your daily activity list. Something that you are programmed to do everyday.

Because at the end of the day, you are your worst enemy! Only you are keeping yourself from doing the right things and taking the best care of yourself. YOU. There is no one else to blame for you not doing right by you. So take care of yourself best by doing right by you. By right I mean eating good food (e.g. vegetables, fruit and lean cuts of meat) and by taking the time to exercise your body as well as dress appropriately. From now on, view your body as the temple of God. Treat your temple with respect. As a child of God, we are called to act with respect when we eat and drink with portion control. Eating within moderation and small portions. Refraining for overeating. Have Boundaries!! Eat to live not live to eat!

Next, get into an exercise schedule and stick to it. If you develop this habit, you will be in good physical shape for the rest of your life. By implementing the right food and exercise habits you will be better equipped to lead the best life possible.

From now on, everyday realize that being the best you possible requires that you eat right, exercise, dress appropriately and take care of yourself so that you are healthy. Does it take extra effort to eat right, exercise, dress appropriately and take care of yourself? YES. It is not easy. It is time consuming. It requires you learning and adopting new eating habits and a exercise routine. It also means you making time for you. By focusing on making you the best you possible you will be enhancing the quality of your life and you are worth the extra effort.

Often you put yourself last and everything and everyone first. The new healthy lifestyle requires you put yourself first and making sure you are healthy and whole before focusing on anyone else. The thought being that if you are healthy, you will be better equipped to handle other people and situations. But first you must take care of yourself. Remember you can not give love if you are not first loving yourself. By loving and liking yourself and implementing self-care you are stopping the cycle of self-abuse and are implementing a healthy lifestyle, setting a good standard for yourself. By doing so, at the end of your day, you are liking and loving yourself and you are worth every bit of time and attention you spend on yourself. So make it a priority everyday to love and like yourself, and to treat your body like the temple of God that it is. You'll be glad that you did.

If ANYBODY knows what you are going through when it comes to weight loss it is me because I went through the same thing. At the end of the day, it was me vs me. The diets. Gaining weight. Losing weight to gain all the weight back again and then to lose it all again ONLY to gain it back once again. The yo-yo syndrome. When I stopped acting like a yo-yo was when I made up my mind to be healthy for the rest of my life. I realized that at the end of the day, it was me versus me. No one else was holding me back from my highest good. Only me. So I got out of my own way and implemented the a healthy lifestyle. At first, doing all the right things meant that I only lost inches, not pounds. That went on for months. So don't let that discourage you. Inches equals weight loss. So measure yourself. Measure your arms, legs,hips, stomach. And keep measuring yourself. Over time you will see the inches get smaller and smaller. And your clothes size getting smaller and smaller. And eventually the pounds will come off too!!! The key is to keep track and to keep measuring yourself to see your progress.

The bottom line is you are worth having a healthy lifestyle. Begin today to implement one in your life. You'll be glad that you did.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
www.ladycharmaineday.com
Excerpt from Cyber Hustle, an online business and self-help book. Available on this website, Amazon and Barnes and Noble.

Reality Check by Lady Charmaine Day

11/3/2017

To the special person reading this: Hello beautiful!!! How are you doing precious? I pray good. You know it is so easy to slip and fall off the bad wagon of good habits and doing the right things for yourself. Have you noticed that? It is easy to do the bad thing but hard to do good? Have you fallen off the band wagon lately of eating right, exercising, and doing other things to keep healthy? If so, that's okay, just dust yourself off, get back up and back on the band wagon to do what you have to be the best you possible. Why? Because you deserve the best life has to offer, including the best you. So it doesn't matter if it has only been a day, month or years, get back on track today.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Do You Truly Believe In God by Lady Charmaine Day

10/23/2017

Do you truly believe in God? Do you believe that God does and will answer your prayers? When trouble comes your way, do you worry about your circumstances and feel fear that you won't make it out of the jam you find yourself in? Again, I ask you, do you truly believe in God? I ask the question because bad things will happen and negative situations will occur. It is at these times when your belief in God should sustain you and carry you through. It is imperative that you come to a place in your life where you are not moved by your circumstances and you do not worry about the negative situations you find yourself in because you know without a shadow of a doubt that God is real, he is in control and he has you in the palm of his hands. He is not going to let anyone or anything harm you because you are his child. He promises you in his word that he will make you the head not the tail and that you will be blessed in the city and in the country. He promises that anything you touch will prosper and that you will live in abundant prosperity. God promises to bless you coming and going. All you have to do is obey his Ten Commandments and all of his promises will come to you. The bible is not fiction but facts. A guide to help you live the best life possible. Since you have the Bible and study the word, God wants you to be able to look adversity in the eye and be confident that he will deliver you from any obstacle you may face because it says so in the Bible. The key is for you to believe in your heart what you read in the Bible and to know that God is in control, he sees what is going on, and he will deliver you. So believe!! Believe with all your heart, mind and body that God is real and is in control. Don't depend on your feelings to help you believe. Your feelings can and will betray you. No, let your belief system be dependent on knowing, knowing that God has you and will sustain you regardless of the circumstance. Just like you know your name, your skin color and your height, know for certain that God is in control, loves you and is taking care of you. When your belief system becomes so strong that you know in your heart that God will take care of you and answer your prayers, than there is nothing in this world that can stop you from achieving all of your dreams and goals. I encourage you to align your belief system in God with what you know to be certain and you will see God move in your life like never before. You'll be glad that you did. Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!
Sincerely
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministries
www.ladycharmaineday.com

The Importance Of Having A Vision For Your Life By Lady Charmaine Day

10/20/2017

Scripture to memorize about Goals and Faith: Habakkuk 2: 2-3 “And the Lord answered me and said, write the vision and make it plain upon tables that he may run that readeth it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak and not lie, though it tarry, wait for it, because it will surely come, it will not tarry.” When I was a little girl, my pastor, Pastor Sarah Utterbach had the church memorize these scriptures. We were believing the lord for a new church building. We were in a small cramped space and wanted to move to a mega church. Something that seemed impossible to get at the time with our funds. But my Pastor said faith is believing in what is not seen as though it is yours. Claiming it and it will be yours. And even though I was a little girl, I believed with all my heart that God would provide a way for my new church to be built. So I would tithe faithfully and contribute to do my part. I kept saying those scriptures because I tell you I didn’t want to be in our current church anymore! LOL. But God is faithful. I remember driving up to the new church. It was so big and huge. Truly a living miracle. And I kept saying inside of my head,”I helped build this, I helped build this with my money, God answered my prayers.” And that really moved me to never forget Habakkuk 2:2-3. The principle of writing down the vision that God gave you so that you can run with it, and having faith that at a designated time it would appear, to wait for it, it will come, it may take some time but it would not be delayed from its designated time stayed with me my entire life. And time after time has proven itself to work. Now I am encouraging you to write down your goals. All of them. Read them in the morning, throughout the day and before you go to bed. And have faith that what you are hoping for will come to pass. Don’t flinch. Don’t give up. Don’t worry. Let Go and Let God. Because you see, it will happen. God is faithful. This is a biblical principle he gave to you so long ago in Habakkuk 2:2-3. Memorize this scripture as part of the treasure chest of scriptures I have already given you (they are Luke 1:37 “For with God nothing shall be impossible,
Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things with Jesus Christ Who Strengthens me, Psalms 23:1 “For the Lord Is my Shepard I shall not want”,
Philippians 4:4-7 “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your request to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus”).

I have always dreamt dreams. Prayed for things and events to happen. I tried to believe with all of my heart that they would come true. Doing this got me through a rough childhood and tumultuous teenage years. When I got older, I realized that for me, it was easier to dream and believe if I wrote down what I wanted and put it on a vision board along with pictures and scripture to stand on making what others call “a vision board” it was easier to dream. Well I don't exactly have a vision board, I have a vision wall. In my bedroom, I have the dreams I pray to come true along with scripture and pictures posted up on the wall next to my bed. Before I go to sleep, I look at them and when I wake up I stare at them to see them as my reality. And I do what I have to do to move myself forward to accomplish them.

I also have a vision table where I have translated these dreams into 3d models using toys from my childhood and other items.
I write this to say that there is power in prayer, along with envisioning and mapping out in one, two and three dimensional ways your hopes, dreams and prayers. You will be amazed when you look back and see that what you asked for will have come to life.
This Biblical principle of writing down your goals, and believing that they are true, have a designated time and will happen is a truth that is real.
If you don't have dreams, visions and goals that you can lay ahold of, you will perish. You will feel a lack of purpose and be unsure of your next move. With goals, dreams and visions which are visible, written, and prayed for and believed in you feel a sense of peace, purpose and like you know where you are headed.
So I encourage you today to write down your dreams, goals and visions. Paste them on a wall where you can see it or a book where you can carry it with you. If you need the extra like I did, there is no shame in the game to make a 3d mock up table of what you want. The more real it is to you, the more real it becomes for you. Remember you are special and deserve to live out your dreams because you deserve this and more. Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

How To Make Heaven On Earth by Lady Charmaine Day

10/16/2017

Imagine right now I give you $100,000 to decorate your home the way you truly always wanted it to be, what would it look like? How would you decorate your home? Imagine it for a moment in your mind. What did that place look like when you imagined it. Was it any different than the way your home is today?

Your place should be your own Heaven on Earth. Today. H.O.M.E. (Heaven On My Earth). The place you call your Home. Your part of the Earth where you reside and people can find you. Your home should be your own Heaven on Earth because this is the place where you reside your head, socialize and most importantly live. It should be the place that you feel most at home, at peace and happy because when you look around your home it looks and feels like heaven to you. If your home is already like that, AWESOME!! You deserve to have your home be your own Heaven on Earth.

If your home is not like that, I encourage you to save enough money so that you can design your home to make you happy. Don't design it to please anyone else but you. Decorate it the way you feel most at home and comfortable. Paint your walls whatever colors you like and buy the furniture that makes you happy. Make it a place where you feel happy and at peace.

And while you are in the process of transforming your home into your own Heaven On Earth, ask yourself are you playing soul soothing music that uplifts and nurtures your spirit in your home? If not, I encourage you to play gospel music, jazz, classical, and music with positive messages will give your spirit the energy it needs to move you to the next level. It will also make you feel good, happy, give you a sense of peace and make your home feel more like the piece of Heaven on Earth that you so rightly deserve.

You deserve to have the best home possible. So start playing your music today and making your home your own Heaven On Earth, today and everyday because you are very very special!!

Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

Walking By Faith By Lady Charmaine Day

10/13/2017

Hello Beautiful!!!
God is the same. He didn't change. None of us got a memo from Jesus or God saying that they lost their power or can't answer your prayers. So since you didn't get that memo and neither did I, we can still have faith. Faith that regardless of what is going on with the world and what it values, we will be alright.

Bad news is not new. Hurricanes, earthquakes, plagues, famine, racism, the demise of systems and nations have been going on for centuries, yet one thing has remained the same, if God is for you, who can be against you? No one. If God is for you, who can block your blessing? No one. If God gives you his favor, who can take it away from you? No one.
The name JESUS still has all power and might in it. So have faith in God. Not in yourself or the world because both can and have let you down, but God has never left you nor forsaken you.

I am content and happy. Not shaken or stirred by the sign of the times. I took stock out of the world economy a long time ago and sought after the real treasure and peace that never fails, God's. I urge you to do the same.

Walking by Faith is believing this one truth: Jesus is your Lord and Savior and Jehovah God is your Heavenly Father. If you believe and trust this with all your heart, you will be fine.
Keep your chin up.
In the meantime, remember to stay blessed!
Until next time take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com

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Happiness by Lady Charmaine Day

10/11/2017

Hello Beautiful!!!
Happiness is an inside job. It is a choice. You make a decision every day to be happy or not. Choose to be happy and to enjoy life. We are only given one life. Make it the best one possible for you. Are you happy? Do you feel joy in your heart? God wants you to be happy, full of joy and have peace of mind. If you are not experiencing this, then pray to God and ask him to give you peace of mind, more joy and happiness.
I was having a conversation with a young man this weekend and I said to him do you know what makes you happy? If I was to ask you to tell me 10 things that make you happy, can you do it? What are you doing to keep the kid in you happy and feeling safe and secure? And he said you know, I didn't have much of a childhood and I don't know what makes me happy. So I told him, it is never to late to start and find out. So I gave him homework to find out. And so I am doing the same thing with you. Do you know what makes you happy? Please create a list of the 10 things that make you happy and also create a second list of the 10 things you can do to keep the child in you alive. Then once you have created these list, regardless of how big or small those things are, get busy incorporating them in your life so that you can feel happier, complete and fulfilled.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
www.ladycharmaineday.com

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The Bigger Picture by Lady Charmaine Day

10/9/2017

Hello Beautiful!!!
Are you productive multiplying or are you just busy? There is a big difference. And knowing which one you are doing can mean whether or not you are looking at the bigger picture or sweating the small stuff which may be wasting valuable time.

God only commanded us to do one thing: To be fruitful and multiply. He didn't say be busy with nothing to show for your time. A lot of us are caught up in running around with our heads cut off like chickens versus thinking and have a point to our daily activities.
Today I took a step back to see what is the bigger picture for my life. Are all my activities in alignment with the big picture, the vision that God has given me for my life and ministry? Because if not, time to hit the delete button on time wasters. I just hit a one year milestone in my career and I can say that I have taken seriously God's command to be fruitful and multiply. I can see evidence of being productive, versus busy in my own life.

Where are you? Are you being fruitful and multiplying? Have you accomplished things on your to do list for your dreams and vision for your life that you set out to do one year ago? When you look back over the last year, do you see progress and that you are better off today than you were yesterday?
Time waits for no one. So please, stop being busy. And be fruitful and multiply.
And remember to, stay blessed!!!
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
www.ladycharmaineday.com

When You've Done All That You Can Do...Stand by Lady Charmaine Day

10/6/2017

Hello Beautiful!!!
People ask me what do you do when you have done all that you know to do? I tell them...Stand. Just stand. Get still. Stop moving. Take your hands off the situation and raise your head up to God. Let Go and Let God.
It hit me like a ton of bricks today. God is in control. I mean I know that. But the deepness of that statement and the relief that I should be feeling because that is true hit me. God is in control. I mean really in control. I'm not. There have been so many calamities, trials and tribulations that have come my way that I have risen up from, come back like someone rising from the dead "saying how in the world did i make it, i mean i lived it and i can't believe God got me through it, but he did it, God is in control". Can you feel what I am saying?
I mean if God is in control then he has me. God's got me. I dont have to worry. Whew. I can let go of worry. Do you believe God has you? Then you can say the same thing too.
Sometimes, we try to think our way out of our problems. And try to figure out the "how" when that is not our job. Our job is to pray and then stand.
So when you have done all that you can do. Pray.
Then Stand.
And believe that God is in control and will deliver you. You've done your part. Now trust that he will do his.

I am living proof, he is constant. He will. If you just believe him at his word. He will not let you down.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit
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Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
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God Is Good All The Time by Lady Charmaine Day

9/29/2017

Hello Beautiful!!!
God is good all the time!!!
Regardless of your circumstances or what you are going through, in every situation you can find the good that God is giving you.
How? How do you find God and his goodness in the midst of trials and tribulations?
First start by changing your thinking and vision so that you can see God's presence in your life. You can do this by looking at your situation. Things could always be a million times worse than your current state of affairs. God's mercy, grace and favor kept you from experiencing something far more horrible than what you are going through.
Second, when in the midst of your crisis, do you notice people are blessing you with kindness and compassion, that's God in action. God works through people to bless you and uplift you.
Third, draw closer to him by consistently praying to him and praising him for all the blessings that he has given you.
Lastly, adopt an attitude of constant gratitude for the things he has done in your life. I know personally from experience in my darkest days because of my changed thinking and vision, I have been able to look passed my circumstances and see God's hand on my life protecting me, taking me through the storm I had been facing and sending people at just the right time to help me. That's why I can say God is good all the time. You can do this too by choosing to see God at work in your life because he is right there caring for you and seeing you through. We serve an awesome God who is in control of this world and who cares for you. By implementing the few steps I suggested you will notice God's presence in your life. You'll be glad that you did! Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor,
Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit
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Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
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Baggage by Lady Charmaine Day

9/22/2017

Hello Beautiful!!!
Baggage. You can’t be happy and filled with joy walking around carrying the baggage of your past. You have to forgive those people who have done you wrong. Why? By forgiving them you are cleansing your heart and making way for God to bless you. You forgive them and let go off the bitterness and rage and revenge in your heart. Put your trust in God that he saw what went down and that he will judge and justice will be served by God. Not one person who has ever done me wrong has gotten away with it. I let go and let God and in time God brought my enemies to justice. I forgave them all and let go. If not the memories, the bitterness, the rage would have consumed me and I would not have been able to function. You cannot be happy carrying around thoughts of revenge. And at the same time how can you ask God to forgive you for your sins, your evil thoughts when you are not forgiving people who did you wrong? Do you think you are better than God? You are not above God and it is hypercritical to ask for forgiveness and be holding grudges and anger in your heart so you have to let it go and let God. Also do you think whoever hurt you years ago or yesterday cares about you right now? No they don’t. They have moved on with their life and are happy. Meanwhile here you are carrying around negative energy and blocking your blessings. Stop the madness. And it takes energy to remember anything. It takes energy to recollect feelings, time and places. That’s energy you can be using to build up your walk with God. Energy you can use to make yourself a better person. Also so you can be free and at peace. Free like a butterfly.
So let go and let God.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit
http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.

Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
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5W's by Lady Charmaine Day

9/20/2017

Everything has a price. What is yours? Do you know for what price you can be bought or sold? How much does it cost to lose your soul? Sanity can be measured. It is the ease at which you are able to breathe and sleep at night. It is the amount of frown lines you have in your face, it is the words that you never say and are never spoken about you in love and tenderness. For nothing, you give everything you have to go after the 5ws. The who, what, when, where, and why of the world. And the 5ws are:

Who…Who do I know, Whose network do I belong to, Who am I (my title, my position), and Who am I with (dating or married to).

What… What you look like. What you have. What you own. What you are (I am Doctor Jones etc.).

When…When do I get the next thing. When did I accomplish what I have now. When I get “X” then I’ll be happy or satisfied (but upon getting x you never are) and your life is driven by what age you accomplish something.

Where…Where do I live. Where do I work. Where do I or my family accomplish our daily active living.

Why…Why do I get what I have (the world calls it the halo effect when you get what you do because of a certain reason that most people have a favorable bias towards).

Thinking that once you have it, it will come. The it being the happy ending, the happiness that you had wanted all your life, the feeling of satisfaction, the never ceasing smile. But upon getting it, because that is what you tied your sanity to, you are never satisfied. Because you see, all of those are things, idols, things that you worshipped versus God and God said not to worship any other god but him. And so you obtained these things for the wrong reasons. Who are you posing for? The world. The world isn’t feeding, financing or making love to you so why are you giving up your sanity for the right image? At the end of the day, when all of that are gone (all the "right image things" everything that you think can you happy), no one who was looking will come to save you, except one. God. God. The hand you let go of to pursue the right image, will be the only one extended to you to stand back up. And when you drop S from your chest for being your own savior and super being and picked up the J for Jesus, you will truly begin to live.

Today, we are in the middle of hard times. When hard times occur, it is survival of the fittest. Companies use “the times” as an excuse to clean house and do whatever they want to reform and to make a profit. And you, you are left to fend for yourself. To battle the corporate mind games of being in the rat race. To deal with the high cost of barely surviving. And if you are doing it in your own strength, just like you have done it all this time, how far do you think you are going to get?
WHO DO YOU THINK IS IN CONTROL? WAKE UP!!!
God is in control.
And he is not bothered by the sign of the times. Because for those who call his name he will hear them and give them his grace, love, favor and mercy. While plagues may come over other houses, they will pass yours by. Humble yourself and find God. And the way back is simply to ask for forgiveness and to seek his face. And to stand. Stand on scripture. Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me”. Stand on this word until you are the word and the word and you are one. Remember as you come and you go, ask God to order your footsteps. Pray for everything, your home, your job, your family, your friends, your happiness and for peace. Nothing good will be withheld from you, if you believe and have faith in God, not yourself. I can tell you, that serving God and not relying on yourself to get through life is easier. You will not get stressed by what you see because you know who has you. Having a relationship with God and tying your self-image to this one fact: You are a child of God, God has me, will give you a peace of mind and the confidence that you are safe and secure throughout life's trials and tribulations. That my fate is not determined by man but God gives me peace. A peace of mind that you can not buy. And I want that for you. Now is the time to make sure that your most valuable asset is your relationship with God and your most used resource is the Bible. Seek comfort in the fact that whatever you may face in this world, it will not overcome you because God will help keep you and protect you.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"
Please visit
http://www.ladycharmaineday.com
for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.

Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
info@ladycharmaineday.com

Talent by Lady Charmaine Day

9/18/2017

Hello Beautiful!!!
God gives us “talent” (capability to do things we may not have been able to do without divine intervention). For example, each of us is born with natural talents and gifts. Something that makes us special. Like maybe you can sew or speak or are good in math or draw. Everyone has one thing that they are good at. As kids we know what that thing is and either we develop it and use it or we don’t. So by the time we are adults we are subject matter experts (SME) in our talents. What happens if you are not a SME in your talent? What if you never developed it? You lose it. It goes away. All of sudden you’re not a star performer just less than average. Now when you are good, a SME at something and here’s the key, you use your talent in away to bring God honor and glory, God smiles on you and gives you more talent. All of sudden you find you have a second capability you didn’t have before. And you’re not average at it but good. This is what you can expect as a Child Of God. More talent. More capability to be productive and therefore happy. God wants you to be thoroughly happy and enjoying what you do. Always expanding your mind and doing what you can do. You never reach the “end” of life when you are living. You keep on living. So the goal shouldn’t be a happy ending but more happiness and after you get more happiness go get more and more. Never stop seeking happiness. Because you should be happy on a consistent basis. I had it all wrong until I was 37 that the goal was happy endings but that was a false thought that came to me because of fairy tales. Life isn’t a fairy tale with fake phony “endings”. But a journey with wonderful things to see along the way. You can make it incredible this journey known as life if you fully use all your talents because then God will bless you with more options and more things and people to see and you will have a great time with all levels of people. God wants a relationship with you where he sees and talks with you about everything he has given you in this life to work with. We all come out the gate 0-18 with stumbling blocks, obstacles, family drama, school drama, even low self esteem. But God gives us our talent so when we make it to adulthood and to our own conscious decision to be with him, we are ready to use our talents to bring him glory and honor to his name. How do you honor God with your talent? Tell all who can hear you the source of where your talent comes from. Use your talent in some form to help other Children Of God too. These are two ways God gets the glory. People think their talent is for their sole purpose to make them standout and acknowledged. NO. It is about God. For people to say God works through this person. Look at how God blessed this person with that talent. Or that’s just God coming from your own lips. This is how you honor God and is the best use of your talent.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit
http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at
info@ladycharmaineday.com

Faith By Lady Charmaine Day

9/15/2017

Faith. It takes faith to have anything. Faith is believing in spite of what you see. Faith is not a feeling because your feelings can and will betray you. Faith is hope. Hope is wanting something that does not exist to come into existence and believing it will come to pass. Obstacles. There will be many obstacles in your way that seem insurmountable. But if you believe in God and don’t flinch you will be fine.

How do you not flinch? You keep on going back to the point of belief where you know in your heart God will not fail you. You look at something that he did in the past, a miracle and depend on that for today. God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. God will make sure you are delivered to your miracle on time in the best way possible. Sometimes the best way is not your way, but it’s God’s way and God’s way is always the best. God rewards those who are faithful to him with his blessings, grace, favor and mercy. You can and will have all of those things if you have at least a mustard seed of faith.

What is a mustard seed of faith? It is as small as this . on the paper. It is very tiny. You can have at least that much faith. Faith is the key to believing in God. None of us have seen Jesus or God or the Holy Spirit so we are already showing that we have faith because we believe in something invisible we can’t see. We take the Bible as the living word of truth. That takes faith. So you already demonstrate faith simply by calling yourself Christian and following the commandments of God. You will have all the things you desire if you continue to have a relationship with God and demonstrate this kind of faith.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!
Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

The Power Of Silent Protest by Lady Charmaine Day

9/13/2017

For my entire childhood,teenage years,twenties and early thirties, I did not understand Martin Luther King Jr. I could not understand how he was able to so calmly, professionally and smoothly maintain a stance of non-violence in the direct light of violence against himself, the people following him and his family.It wasn't until I casually said to someone when I was angry the following statement did I realize what he was doing. I was working as the head of human resources in a very unprofessional environment. One of my co-workers who was pregnant was harassed by a couple of workers on the job. One of the people who stressed her out I walked up to and I said in a very calm voice "I feel sorry for you.I am going to pray for you. I am going to pray that the God I serve avenge me in this situation. I pray that you never feel a day a peace until you apologize to this woman sincerely and leave her alone. And I pray that you never forget this lesson and change your wicked ways." The woman just started to shake. She said Ms. Day, Ms. Day please stop. Please don't pray. Please don't pray. I walked away.
I went back to my office. I sat down. Then people came running into my office asking me what did I do to her. I said nothing. I said I would pray for her to change her wicked ways. They said the woman was admitted into the emergency room screaming and seizuring.
That made me think. I got really scared. Up until this point I never saw a direct correlation between silent protest for justice, and the power of prayer. I was humbled by it.
From that day forward I promised to watch my words.
And to be careful about my prayers, God listens.
I knew that God sees me, hears me and does take action when it comes to me.
I know he does that for me and he does that and more for you.
Today, I am more mature in my walk as a Christian. I wouldn't walk up to someone and tell them I am praying for them. I would just pray silently for God to intervene in the situation,take away my anger and for the best outcome to happen. And then I show up, without stress, worry or concern and let God handle the rest.

People have seen other people yell and scream at me and me not raise my voice. React. I hear them out. Then I patiently respond and remain professional. People ask me don't I feel weak? Don't I get angry? Don't I want to punch the person in the face? And I say to them, I am not in charge of this situation, God is. God has never failed me and he will avenge me in this situation. And you will see it. And sure as my legal maiden name is Charmaine Day justice comes to pass.

So if you find yourself in the midst of a situation where someone is attacking you, don't think that there isn't power in prayer. Your prayer is the most powerful weapon that you can evoke. Its power reaches beyond this situation and sometimes generations in terms of outcomes. You are not a victim but victorious.
On another note of silent protest, I am boycotting the NFL by not watching any football games or sports commentary on football because the NFL owners have not hired Colin Kaepernick because of his silent protest against police brutality and racism. I realized that right now I am witnessing a man who took a righteous stand be persecuted as a result. That's not right. I will continue to boycott until Colin Kaepernick is gainfully employed as a quarterback in the NFL.
I am praying for Colin's protest against police brutality and racism to bring changes in America.
Colin Kaepernick is our generations Muhammad Ali.

There is power in prayer.
There is power in silent protest.

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

Nothing Can Block Your Blessings by Lady Charmaine Day

9/8/2017

To The Very Special Person Reading This: Hello Beautiful! Please know that nothing can block your blessings. What God has ordained for your life, no man can take away from you. Your blessings have a predetermined time, for a predetermined appointment to meet you. Sarah in the Bible laughed at the angels when they told Abraham she would be pregnant in her old age. All her life she wanted to have children and it didn't happen. How could it possibly happen when she was 90? But God promised Abraham a child by his wife, Sarah and God keeps his word. Is there something God promised you and you feel like it will never show up? Perhaps peace and prosperity are alluding you. A spouse or elevation on your job. Living out your passion in a new career. Do you think it will not happen? My friend I am here to tell you, God is faithful. What he has promised you will come to pass. Have patience. HAVE PEACE, BE STILL, KNOW THAT GOD IS GOD. God wants you to know that he sees you exactly where you are at and knows your heart. He is moving situations and people in your favor. He is working out your circumstances so that the blessing will come. And it will surely come on time, in such a way that you know his hand was in it. Sometimes we ask why not before? Why not on my timeframe? Perhaps you weren't ready before now. Or you wouldn't have given God the glory for the miracle he is performing. Maybe the wait got you in a mode of thankfulness and appreciation you would not have had before. Plain and simply, it wasn't time.But a delay doesn't mean a denial, just a
bigger delivery.So get ready for your blessing. In your wait sin not. Groan not. Be of good cheer. Prepare for your blessing. Get ready to receive for the designated time will be here as it should.Remember, God sees all and knows all. He knows your heart and will bless you. So be patient. You are special.
Until next time, take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

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God Is In Control by Lady Charmaine Day

9/1/2017

May I have your attention please. Please, may I have your attention. This blog post is to remind you of your right and privileges as a child of God. God promised you peace of mind, love, joy, happiness, good health, prosperity, a more abundant life and a closer relationship with him through having his son Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. To my knowledge, there has not been a communication memo to you nor I in the last forty six years telling us that Jesus Christ quit on his job and that what God promised us is null and void. Correct? So please, stop giving room to worry, doubt, fear and anxiety about things that arise in your life that are contrary to God's word. So when lack of any shape form or fashion comes, tell it to go. When poverty wants to strike, tell it to go back where it came from, when depression and sickness comes rebuke it in the name of Jesus and tell it that everything must bow down to the name of Jesus and cease from its works.

You are not a victim in this life but a victor. Jesus came so that you could have victory and success in every area of your life. If you are suffering in some area of your life you need to ask yourself why am I settling for this when God has promised me something positive? Then quickly, run like you are on fire to God asking God to take care of this area and to implement his promise. Then stand. Don't be moved by what you see, hear, smell or feel. Don't be moved by your circumstance or by other people. Just stand and don't pick it back up. Have faith and believe in God for the victory in that area. And it will surely come.
God's promises can be found in Deuteronomy 28:1-13. There you will find that God promised to bless your home, your work, your family, your body. He promised to make you a leader, a lender, and prosperous. He promised to bless you in the present and in the future. He promised to go before you and bless your coming and going. He promised if an enemy comes at you in one direction that they will flee you in seven directions. And he promised so much more. Read it for yourself and you will get excited because in essence God has promised you a wonderful life. He wants you to be happy. He wants you to be prosperous and he wants you to be excited about getting up each day and praising his name because he is a great God.
So just like you haven't quit your job, know that Jesus hasn't quit his. God hasn't quit on you either. So keep living on purpose. Don't settle for nothing less than the best in every area of your life because that is what you deserve and you are special!!! Stay blessed!!!
Until next time,
take care of yourself and stay special!!!

Sincerely,
: )
Lady Charmaine Day
Pastor, Unlimited Help On-Line Ministry
www.ladycharmaineday.com
"Helping Individuals Transform Their Mind, Body and Spirit Utilizing the Principles of Jesus Christ"

Please visit http://www.ladycharmaineday.com for more information to help you along your spiritual journey.
Lady Charmaine Day is available for speaking engagements, book signings, and consultations. She can be reached at info@ladycharmaineday.com

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